Do you get angry on people at mylot?
@pweety_princess (2012)
Australia
July 21, 2009 6:44am CST
Hey guys. =D
I'm just wondering if sometimes you feel as if your buttons are being pushed and a certain member is being rude against you. I'm sure we have all experienced it, and me being as a member, have seen many fight discussions.
Have you ever had someone push you that little bit too far? What about?
Have you seen fights around mylot?
Are you a person to easily get angry by what somebody says?
Thanks I would like to hear all of your opinions.
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16 responses
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
21 Jul 09
Like may other Lotters, I come here for fun.
Fun to me does not mean arguing, squabbling and getting heated as there is enough of that offline. I am not easily angered either here or offline and when I see users bickering it spoils it for me because I cannot understand how they can get their fun that way
I have not been involved in any arguments, just differences of opinion which have been resolved without causing harm, I hope, to others.
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@pweety_princess (2012)
• Australia
22 Jul 09
I agree with you that mylot is a website where you should have fun on. Like you said, if you and someone else have a different voice of opinion, talk it through and say why you believe so, don't just start fighting over it. :)
@heartbeats1010 (206)
• India
21 Jul 09
why? why shoould we get angry against them? everyones here just for fun and socail netowkring. better avoid fight discussion ..and happy my lotting
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@impaktita (965)
• Philippines
22 Jul 09
Well it's happened before.But I chose just to ignore it cause I don't see the sense in fighting with someone on the internet especially over discussions. Whenever someone leaves sarcastic or nonsense reponses to mine I just let it go. I came here for 3 things, to share my opinions in topics I know of, to learn of new things and to earn a little pocket money so getting angry with other mylotters won't help in any way.
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
21 Jul 09
Oh yes there are many mylotters here who do not like to be disputed and stick to thier ideas only. If we try to explain our view point, they turn nasty and it makes you sick. However the best way is to ignore such people in future and never answer to them. There are many discussions here on mylot which are taken up very seriously and it turns out to be a slanging match. Each one is entitled to ones opinion and that is what all of us need to learn and understand instead of brick batting.
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@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
Hi there, well so far i dont have that experience and i am glad that being here in mylot i dont have bad experience with fellow mylotters. But before i was reading member discussion that she was having trouble with another member dont mind it maybe when i encounter that problem hheheh. Anyway, keep on mylotting.
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@Basil2004 (105)
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21 Jul 09
It is inevitable that on a site like this with so many people that tempers to flair from time to time especially when the odd idiot comes along who is totally discourteous and seems determined to irritate people. It is a sad fact of life that there is always one. If it is any consolation if you look at bloggs in national newspaper web sites you will be aware of very heated arguments taking place and tempers getting lost. I suppose the trick is to take a step back and not rise to the bait if you find that someone is seriously irritating you
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@emskoneko (805)
• United States
21 Jul 09
When I made my first few discussions on mylot, I was easily annoyed by people with ignorant comments but I never placed myself in a fight or let it get to me. It's the internet and those kind of people and comments will always be there because they feel so "strong" and "safe" without having any physical or close contact. Sometimes a comment could seem rude but it's usually a person trying to correct me so I learn from it.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 09
I've seen a few, yes, mostly not directed at me. If it's in my discussion, I politely tell them to behave. If it's in somebody else's discussion, I mostly mind my own business. If somebody's being really abusive towards another member, I report it.
@iamsolucky (1241)
• Philippines
22 Jul 09
Hi pweety and smile .
I didnt encounter that someone is really rude in the discussions i started or responses that i made to them. Whenever i start discussion or make responses i see to it that it is friendly, or if not, its really one that is full of advice, opinions and suggestions.
I have seen fights but i didnt allow myself to involve. I know that people of different countries has different views and attitude too.
happy mylotting and smile always!
@smartone2009 (220)
• United States
22 Jul 09
I havent been on here long enough to get angry, but to me its all words, and words shouldnt phase noone, defintly online chatting.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
22 Jul 09
Yes, I did on my early days in mylot during my first few months in here at my old account that was canceled. i was aggressive at that time and i could say we kick some butt. but i guess another troll got it's revenge when it saw a violation to my discussion that caused deletion on my account. now, that i came back i think i am gonna stay away from this people and instead, report them secretly to admin. no more useless fight words..
@khalilsama (16)
• Netherlands
21 Jul 09
nah I never get mad, except when people verbally attack a large group of people, like blacks, or muslims, os handicapped people, I mean how on earth can you justify that!?
Its really weak of those people to be acting this way but hey gota have some jerks on the world,
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
hello there!
there are times that i can't really avoid to get annoyed with someone here and its only because i feel offended at times and sometime really feel disagree on what they are saying...but it stops there. coz i hate arguments and so i just stop responding whenever i feel that the discussion will ends up in arguing...i am here not to be angry or what, i am here to have fun and enjoy...
if i found someone really rude or mean, i just leave him and ignore and just keep myself happy by going to more happy and nice discussions!
have a nice day!