When is a friend become a love?

Vietnam
July 21, 2009 11:16am CST
I have a girl friend,she's so pretty,i love her very very much! But she don't want that, she want us only close friend. That's difficut to me! What must i do?
4 responses
@hireshd (490)
• India
21 Jul 09
I know its very difficult to stay like this you love her she does not and still spend time together, let her have her own time to digest this fact that u love her and she does not. Dnt rush to say good bye now, talk with each other and yes do get involved in your daily routine without her presence around her.
• Vietnam
22 Jul 09
thank,nice a day !!!
• Indonesia
21 Jul 09
..It must be quiet hard for you.. I think it will be better if you accept the truth. It will be more difficult for you and her if the relationship become a love-relationship but she doesn't feel happy. Let her go and find her own happiness. If you want to stay close to her as her friend, help her, etc just do it. I =f it's difficult for you for being close to her anymore after her rejection just left her. I believe you're a mature man and can decide what's the right to do next for your future without wasting your time... After all, it's just my suggestion,,hehe.. hope you will find the best solution as soon as possible^^,, good luck in your love-life! Know when to start, when to hold on, and when to stop.. GBU^^,, Piece!
• Vietnam
22 Jul 09
thank u very much !!!
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
21 Jul 09
Well, I hate to tell you but accept her as a friend. I mean, do you really want someone that isn't in love with you? I have a friend, we have always been close friends, best friends. But I know it will not become anything more and I have found someone else. Now my girlfriend has no problem with our friendship and we hardly ever see each other. I know some girls may have a prpoblem with that. In that case, you would have to make a decision, probably the right one would be to choose the one you love over this friend. But you could also look for someone who trusts you enough to have this friendship. I know I'm lucky to have someone like that. Another thing of course is, maybe something might happen between you two. But nothing will happen if you can't be a friend first and maybe only a friend forever.
• Vietnam
22 Jul 09
thank for advise,i think i'm mature thinking in love
@hireshd (490)
• India
21 Jul 09
I know its very difficult to stay like this you love her she does not and still spend time together, let her have her own time to digest this fact that u love her and she does not. Dnt rush to say good bye now, talk with each other and yes do get involved in your daily routine without her presence around her.