What do you think about man with long hair and woman with short hair?

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
July 21, 2009 3:00pm CST
What do you think about a man who care about babies, and woman who go with friends in restaurant to drink a beer? What do you think about woman who ask a man marry with she and about man who wait a woman to call them and ask to date? What do you say about a woman who driving a truck and about a man who are hair stylist? Idea is....WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT WHAT A MAN AND A WOMAN MUST TO DO? THEY ARE DIFFERENT IN WHAT THEY LIKE WHAT THEY WANT OR ALL IS JUST A ILUSSION AND ALL , MAN AND WOMAN ARE SAME?
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20 responses
• United States
21 Jul 09
I think that the age we live in is very different that it was 100 years ago. I have dated men with longer hair than me...and there have been times when my hair is cut very short. I have friends that (when I'm not pregnant) go out and we have drinks together. I don't think there is anything wrong with a woman asking a man out on a date anymore. I am more traditional, and prefer to have a man ask me out, but if he doesn't get the hint, I wouldn't be opposed to asking him out. I just think that socially we have evolved, and that isn't a bad thing.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
21 Jul 09
hi, so you say that now life is different how was years ago...more modern maybe...but in all times was strange or weird people, who like to be different...man must to be man and woman ,woman in all times and conditions?
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@emskoneko (805)
• United States
22 Jul 09
Any person, whether they be a man or woman or hermaphrodite, can choose to be as they like. They can choose to accept current social norms, group mentality, individuality or whatever. I would just like to see people be themselves with a good and loving heart.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 09
I don't have a problem with any of those things. If they are happy with their lifestyle and aren't hurting anybody with it, so what? But of course we aren't the same. I have boobies!!!
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@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
25 Jul 09
i think as long as one is respectable, acting in the way he or she is expected to do, is well groomed, has a life then i guess one can afford to be a little bit way off norm. but only a little off norm. too much causes one to think twice about that person.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
25 Jul 09
iam old fashioned. i like the man working and earning a living while the wife stays and do housework and care for the family. but these days it doesnt go like that anymore. women very open as to who they like and do not wait anymore for the man to do the courting. oh boy!!! and so on and so forth.. what can we do? this is the trend now and we have to accept. but is still prefer the old fashioned way. ann
@Jennyleen (249)
22 Jul 09
mans with long hair is cool, others not. its looks dirty.. lolx girls/womens with short hair is cute really.. with long they become beautiful and not cte anyore waha
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
22 Jul 09
To each his or her own. Why after all this time would women give up there equal rights. A man who looks good with long hair,is fine by me. Just as a women with short hair. Whatever floats your boat. As far as waiting for a man to do all the work,why some are very shy.You never want to miss a golden opportunity .I asked my husband out in high school ,we will be married 25 years in a few months.He was shy and surprised that I would date him ,it was worth the risk.
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
22 Jul 09
Hello, For me, As a job, then is ok but if you are asking if a man stay home and take care of kids and woman goes out to drink with friends then this is bad... as a wman, she should be home and take care of children and her husband and especially spend time with family as well. A woman driving truck is ok cuz it is a job and it might be interested in that woman... I dont like much about man has long hair,
@jassi1 (170)
• India
22 Jul 09
though hair is an essential part of beauty wther it is long or short so no matter how deos a man look with long hair and women with short hair your hair style shoud siut to your face now a days people used to colour their hair girls and boys both it is a time where youth is fashionable and would like to have their hair cuts accordingly whether he is goping to office or studying in a colledge if i talk about me so i must say choice changes according the time earliar i love to have long hair but now i am working women so accordingly i have short hair cut the reason behind it is easy to manage them in little time and you are looking good also so it matters whatever the fashion is
@andresimp (818)
• India
22 Jul 09
well, i will be proud if a man cared about babies, and if woman drives a truck, i would appreciate her. i think every human being are capable of doing anything. it doesnt matter whether she is a man or women.. like a woman driving a truck etc.. only will power is required. i believe that there are certain things that society created that rules and regulations for man and woman to live a certain way. Nothing is restricted as to what a man and women should do.. they should support each other in life.
@meapas (2436)
• India
22 Jul 09
A world of upsidedown. meapas.
@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
22 Jul 09
icesmile.. to me, only difference between a man and woman are 1) Woman will have menses 2) Woman gave birth and go through labour pain other than that, it's just mere illustration of both sexes on what should it be look like... and nowadays, talk about equality, it will only be fair, once man can go through labour pain and give birth!!! Man and Woman are same to me beside the points above... Happy MyLotting
@grace118224 (1038)
• China
22 Jul 09
nowadays we won't be too much surprised about man with long hair . And women with short hair are everywhere in the street . There are not much difference between men and women in some fields . Everything changes now. Woman can do what men are supposed to do and men begin to be good at jobs which women are good at before. No surprise.
• India
22 Jul 09
At this modern age, there is no priority for any genders. Whoever is the best whether he/she , people support or trust the efficient.. There is no need to do anything. It's not an illusion. They deserved their destiny and are going behind that.
• Canada
22 Jul 09
Why should it matter? Some guys look great with long hair, some women look great with short hair (I am one of them). I don't believe in gender roles, so I don't think one gender should be restricted to a certain role, dress, hair style, set of rules. Stereotypes like this do not exist to my husband and I.
• Canada
22 Jul 09
Why should it matter? Some guys look great with long hair, some women look great with short hair (I am one of them). I don't believe in gender roles, so I don't think one gender should be restricted to a certain role, dress, hair style, set of rules. Stereotypes like this do not exist to my husband and I.
• China
22 Jul 09
I should say,I am a traditional guy, I just do as common people do and never do things that people think strange,but I do not exclude strange friends in my life.Once, my roommate cut all her hairs off and take along a turban,I think it is cool.Actually ,what I want to express is people have the right to pursue their dream no matter how they look different.So a man with long hair and a woman with short hair can be OK.
• India
22 Jul 09
I don't think that there is a role reversal or some such similar thing that might be happening. Its just the social evolution. But, I guess during earlier times, by earlier i mean the Medieval Ages and before, even then men had long hair..:) But, as far as the present is concerned, for me it doesn't matter who is incharge of whom as long as both are mature enough to understand that to co-exist each is dependent on the other.
@machizmo (279)
• United States
22 Jul 09
I think it depends on the person and also where they live in this world. Some places it not as acceptable as other places.
• Israel
22 Jul 09
I think it's great that people are able to behave different then what the society expect from them.