What's the worst that could happen?.....................

You present two scenarios that are very hard to get past. The reason I know that is both happened to me. My first wife had many affairs early in our marriage but I did not learn of it until many years later. It liked to kill me but with the help of counseling I worked it out for myself. We continued on because we were good friends and after all it had been many years. However a few years later, because of what was going on in our lives she did it again. This time I divorced her. After 39 years of marriage it was a very difficult thing to do. I recovered from it with a lot of help from family and friends and begin looking again. I found her and we were married. The problem here was that she was diabetic and had not taken care of herself for many years so was in poor health. I had no idea how poor. After we were together for about 5 years she passed away from a heart attack. I can tell you that this is far worse because she did not leave me because she wanted to. I do hope that you do not have to experience this.

the worst thing that can happen in a relationship is if i get married i'm so in love and we stay together for 30 years then i find that he gave me aids and he's been cheating on me with another man that he's leaving me for. the worst i mean i would die if that happens to me. i don't want to jeinks anything so i'm done talking about it. but thanks for sharing. and have a happy my lot day.

I truly think that the worst she could do is pass away and leave me behind. Everything else can be worked through

When we talk about someone we have chosen to spend our lives with, everything that may happen matters. But each one of us interpret things differently. Whether is a simple argument that turned into a terrible fight, a betrayal, a loss of the loved one in case; we have the same pain with different intensity, that according to our way of seeing and understanding whatever happens. Imagine to find yourself deep in love, then you see yourself married with the person you so much desired. Years go by and things start happening; some will be wonderful while others will take you deep into sorrow. You know, we all look for happiness, but life is not only about being happy, we all face the storms that come along with the happiness we so hard fought for. But sooner or later we all have to face the pains that come along with it. However, not to run away of your question... The worst thing for me would be to find out that I am not loved any more, that I failed to be what my loved one needs. That she had given up on me.