Who is more excited about getting married.... Men or women?

Hi tjades, I am not proud to say that guys have a tendency to 'scare' off their mates whenever they are going to settle down. This is especially different from ladies, whom would be nothing but supportive towards their bride-to-be friends. I think it's the moment when most guys would dread because marriage for most means the answer to being committed, being tied down with the lady that one love and would have more commitments so to speak. Like no more guy to guy hang-outs the much, everything to be done must be with the notion that there is someone new in the life and stuff like that.. It's a different feeling for ladies, I would mostly think so, because marriage is the best reason that could ever happen. But of course guys are more than happy to find 'The One'. It's just that there's an underlying and under-current understanding or secret message or radar between guys which says something like 'That's it!'.. Some take it well but some don't. But most have done better after marriage and accepting the fact that their mates are no longer part of their major lives and that they have someone to love and to love them.. Therefore, to answer your discussion, I would say both are excited to get married, only that guys take a longer time to digest it..

hi tjades, both men and women excited with marriage ,marriage is leagal so no worry and other things to fear...have a nice day

I think women are more excited about b/c they tend to dream about that day the whole time they are growing up. Men just kind of go along with it. I know when Hubby and I got married I was more nervous than anything and just wanted it over with. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]

Based from other people's testimony, girls are more excited to be married than boys. Women are always on cloud 9 when marriage is the topic but men always cringe maybe because of some financial issues which traditionally bother men..hehehe

I agree with you. I think women are more excited about marriage than men. But in my case it is the other way around. He wants to get married and I think I feel a little pressure. So I guess it all depends on the person and how they feel about each other.

I think it would depend on the people in the relationship. In general youd think both men and women would be equally excited, although this doesnt happen often it seems. If i had to choose one it would be the women that appear more excited.

I think that men are happy that they are getting married but I do not think they have the same excitement that a woman does. You see as little girls we dream of the day we get married. We think of the dress and the lovely flowers. Little girls practice walking down the isle when playing with their friends. Little girls seem to spend more time thinking about their big day. Some girls think of having a small wedding while others grow up looking forward to a large wedding with all the bells and wistles. In the same aspect little boys are busy thinking about cars and school and making money. When they get older they think of having someone by their side to share their good fortune with. They even think of the physical benefits to marriage. So it is my opinion that boys are raised to think about marriage in a different way than little girls. I can honestly say that when I got married my husband was glad that we were getting married but he did not get all excited about the cake and dress. I went with girlfriends to find my dress and flowers. I also picked out most of the wedding arrangements myself as well. My husband thought his only job was to show up and say I do. Well, he did show up and he did say I do and we have been happily married for over twenty years. My daughter is now looking forward to getting married next year and her boyfriend just lets her pick all the stuff out for the wedding. When we were looking at the wedding glasses he watched her pick out what she liked, then he said yes he liked them as well. I think he is just letting her have her way because it means more to her than him. This doesn't mean he loves her less or that he doesn't want to get married. In my opinion it is just a man thing.

In my opinion men are more excited about getting married with a women.