have u ever told a lie in mylot?
By shibham
@shibham (16977)
India
July 23, 2009 6:31am CST
hi everyone, this question is only for those brave hearted mylotters not to all. yes if u have the mental srength to encounter the truth then just participate on it. i love truth, so i am in this discussion. yes, i lied two times in mylot, once i responded in a dis that i hate alchohol but realy i am totaly opposite. secondly, i lied that i am married, but it is also false. but all that two falses was not in favour of my willingness, i was forced to tell a lie by situation. what about u? please share. thanks......shibham.
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32 responses
@fairyvinie (17)
• China
24 Jul 09
Not yet...is it sorry? but i am very new here ..i just came here yesterday.and today i became active in mylot...umm...nice to meet you here.
@fairyvinie (17)
• China
24 Jul 09
it's very kind of you.thank you very much.
i'm new here , what should i do to keep active here?
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@madmillionaire (598)
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23 Jul 09
I might have told one or two white lies but in general I certainly would not lie. I would not say I was married for example, like you did, when I am not. But each to their own I suppose. I am sure there are people who lie on sites like this all the time.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
24 Jul 09
hi madmillionaire. i am not a lier, i hate liers. my dad and mom always love me for my power of truth. yes, i said that i am married to a mylotter through a pvt msg bcoz i was harrased by her. i don't want to disclose her name bcoz she is also a active member.
dont include me to the liers list of sites pliz. thanks for response.
@shibham (16977)
• India
24 Jul 09
no i am not married still now. i told that lie bcoz i felt that she want to marry me and her actions and reactions did not conceal it. at that time i was frustrated for some conditions and mentaly i was not ok( not mad). actually she is a girl from my state but unknown in person. perhaps she was influenced by someone( i guess) and she exposed her motives through mylot. i want to say sorry her from breaking her heart. please pardon me. i still consider u as a friend, nothing else. sorry all the mylotters for hurting her. sorry again.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
23 Jul 09
I haven't, really ..
It sure wouldn't be fun at all to lie. I don't see the reason for me to lie to mylotters on anything in particular either..
Even if I am in a bad mood, I would tell. But mostly I'm in a good mood.. there's no reason to be bad mood. Especially when all mylotters are around here to mingle..
Ha.. happy mylotting to you..
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@shibham (16977)
• India
24 Jul 09
hi friend. telling lie never depends on mood, i think. yes if someone teases us or we have to maintain a secrecy then we are forced to lie. it happened to me. For my those two lies, please read my comments to madmillionare and shakil8. thanks for response. happy my;lotting u too.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
So far I haven't lied at mylot's discussion or responses. I just don't know if there would come an instance where we have to do white lies example expressing you have experience the same situation with a very disappointed mylotter just to lift her up thru your response. Overall though, I think it's hard to tell a lie if you're not a liar.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
25 Jul 09
I'm sorry friend, I don't mean to offend you and am not referring to you hehe, thats in general of course I understand what you had posted, I understand the two lies you mentioned...nobody's perfect, I myself perhaps done some white lies only that it's not here in mylot. Peace friend, I never wanted to offend anybody here at mylot. Am sorry with my line, what I mean there is true lies and that's in general...Hope everythings okey now, friend...Have a good day.
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
23 Jul 09
hi shibham!
i never lied here...i always answer based on what i feel, how i feel and on my experience...as much as possible i want to be as sincere as i can and be truthful at all times...what i am here is definitely also me in real life...
and i don't respond just to respond, i respond if i can relate to the topic and if i really have something that i want to say or share...
have a nice day!
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
well, if that's the case, i would rather not reply...
but in your case, i can't say anything about it, i don't want to judge you and you have your reasons why you do that...but i think you have no more lies now, coz you have exposed the truth now...
and besides, i think you don't need to explain to us...
@shibham (16977)
• India
24 Jul 09
hi ckyera. it is a big truth that we should mention the reality here but sometimes some situations never permit to do so. then what will u do? no i am not saying that u should lie. but it is a matter of puzzle. is not it? For my those two lies, please read my comments to madmillionare and shakil8. thanks for your response.
@nrn2003 (661)
• United States
23 Jul 09
No, I have not lied on mylot. what is the point really? I mean I know I will probably never meet any of the people that I post discussions on and that is fine with me. I give me honest opionion to people because that is what they want and expect when you are responding to a discussion. You should have the decency to tell the truth. I mean really you are just making up lies for yourself because no one else will know the difference. So lying on mylot really is more of a personal issue. You shouldn't lie.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
24 Jul 09
hi there, don't think that all the members are same. there are a few members who often criticise and tease others so that i lied twice in mylot. i did not want to expose this chapter of my mylot life but i have done bcoz i know i am too strong to digest everything. i have all the decencies that a person should have. thanks for response.
@nrn2003 (661)
• United States
24 Jul 09
I am sorry that you had to deal with that type of humiliation by being teased or critcized, but in all honesty, being part of this site, you are asking for it. People come on this site and just say what they are feeling at the time. You shouldn't lie about anything, just stick up for yourself. Dont back down and lie. Then that person who is the bully wins. Just stand up for yourself. The people on here like I said dont matter and will not matter in the future.
@shakil8 (407)
• India
23 Jul 09
hey shibham........well i do tell lie in my lief but not here in my lot because its not needed just because i think we tell lie when we are afraid hurting someone we love and care or someone who cares us and guess what i have no one such close to me here so why to tell lie and if anyone gets hurt by my response then i cant do anything its because they were my thoughts so you should ignore it if you dont liked it..........i hope i'm not hurting anyone here....
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@shibham (16977)
• India
24 Jul 09
hi i am admitting now bcoz i am not afraid of society. an incident changed my motives just days ago. that person is also not a perfact man as nobody is perfact in the world. as time passes by i have gotten the mental strenght to encounter any problem. thanks for sharing your views.
@shibham (16977)
• India
24 Jul 09
hi shakil, i appreciate your thoughts. but there is a senior mylotter to whom i am afraid of. he is from my place. yes in a comment he asked me about my alchoholic addiction. then i directly answered that i am not. if i would say the truth then i am sure that he would expose this matter on my society and i would be reproched. so its my self defence. shakil and all the members in this dis..... pliz don't take it other way.
again shakil, i have mentioned why i told the second lie. pliz read your just previous comment. thanks for response.
@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
Hi shibham. The participants in the discussion do not get affected by someone's lie. Usually, it is only the liar who is bothered by his conscience. Our option is to refrain from responding if we feel we have something we would not like to divulge. But the truth matters in all discussions.
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@colydf (913)
• China
24 Jul 09
I think for most of the time, I will tell the truth, because I think nobody knows me here, it is safe to tell something true about myself. However, there maybe sometime you told a lie but you not mean to tell a lie or it is not so bad for you to do so.
@smartone2009 (220)
• United States
24 Jul 09
Not me, Cause the only discussions i wil start up is about the world and whats happening, or advice so nope not me never have yet anyways lol :)
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@tomjoad (551)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
well, if you'r asking about white lies then i guess i have. i'm a little new but when i reply to things here in mylot sometimes you just have to exaggerate a little. although i have not lied about anything i have done or who i am though. i think i just lied on little things that doesn't really matter. like maybe tweaked a story a little to make it interesting. i know what you have in mind, okay i admit it. there's no such thing as white lie or what not! so i'll just be blunt about it. i have lied here in mylot. there, i've said it. can anybody please forgive me? i won't be arrested for lying here would i?
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@shibham (16977)
• India
24 Jul 09
hi tomjoad. exaggration is not a matter at all. yes i lied and never regret for it but i apologise to all of them who is hurted by my lies. yes no one can arrest us for a lie here but it can changes our position among friends. so i have not lied till then but i never say that i will not do same. if situation pushes me than i may repeat. but i hope i will never face such situation like before. thanks for response.
@catherina1982 (135)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
about lie? hmm from me lie its our needs but in two reason.. the one is if we lie 4 a good so why not we doing... the two is if we lie 4 a bad so why we doing? im ryt? so we need to use this if we think 4 a good....
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@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
23 Jul 09
No I haven't. I don't see the point. Honesty is the best policy. Even here, I am honst and hope that those I consider to be friends are as well.
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@NessaFilth (341)
• United States
24 Jul 09
i dont think i have ever lied on here. there's no need to really because, if im going to lie, i might as well not respond in the discussion. I'm a very open person, so i dont worry too much about answering questions- personal or not- and beign judged or anything. It's not a big deal to me. Honestly, it's just a website to me.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
24 Jul 09
thanks for your honesty. i am proud of u that u r in my friends list.
but nessa. i lied. but not intentionally or willingly. For my those two lies, please read my comments to madmillionare and shakil8. ohhh i was confused and harassed. self defence. no way were there. thanks for response.
@chi2nasrin (1101)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 09
Why do I have to? Lying will only chase you around if you want to stay here for a long time. Once you lied then you have to remember them as that you will not say the wrong thing or a complete apposite of what you have said in other discussion.
There's no need to lie... hehe. :-)
@grace118224 (1038)
• China
24 Jul 09
no i don't tell any lies here . i just choose the topics which interest me and then make the responses . But actually i don't think telling a lie as you mentioned is a big deal as long as the lies don't hurt anybody.
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