My Ex-Husband left me for another woman
By lbarned44
@lbarned44 (7)
United States
July 23, 2009 1:24pm CST
My ex-husband and I recently got back together. Everything was great. He got a new job at a factory and met another woman, that was married. They had an affair for along time. She left her husband and my ex-husband left me. They lived together almost a year, he left her and came back to me for 3 days. Left me again and went back to her. Left her again and came back to me. He keeps doing this and it has tore my nerves all to pieces. I still love him, but don't know why. He has treated me terrible. Has anybody else gone through this, that could give me some advice?
4 responses
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
25 Jul 09
I have never gone thru this but let me tell you PLEASE next time he leaves you change the locks to the house, change your phone number and just move on without him. You are allowing him to continue playing this game with you. Don't you deserve a better life and a better man. Be strong and know that you can do this. Do something for yourself for a change.
@jamiegurl123 (80)
• United States
24 Jul 09
I have never been through this but I think it is time for you to move on with your life. He is having a blast with this probably. He is getting the best of both worlds.
@sugarplum9084 (1771)
• United States
23 Jul 09
Sounds like the man is using you, and he is very needy to have a woman all the time. I would not let him come back to you because he is just taking advantage of your forgiveness, you deserve better than that. It must hurt your self confidence to be left all of the time, I can imagine it doing that to me. You deserve to be loved and not left whenever he feels like coming and going. I know it is hard, but you need to say "no" and cut him off. I know that you can fight the temptation, maybe try to do some yoga, become in touch with yourself (not that you aren't), and just leave him do what he wants but don't let him infringe on your well-being.
@Autumnrose2008 (1478)
• United States
23 Jul 09
Oh hun. I have never had to deal with that but my heart goes out to you. I can only imagine that your a nervous wreck. My advice would be to not let him come back. Stand up for your self and dont let him walk on you. I know easier said than done. I hope that he will stop doing this soon for your sanity. Hugs to you. Keep your head up and remember you deserve better than that.
