Falling out of love..

India
July 23, 2009 1:59pm CST
Hi, in our daily lives how often to people tell us about the love of their lives. What happens next? they say they are out of love. What is this? is it true love? How long do you think it takes a human to fall out of love with someone...do you really fall out of love.........i mean if it is true.......... What are your experiences.
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6 responses
• United States
23 Jul 09
love is all about good feeling and bad feelings. when we are in love we have a lot of good feelings about this person. I mean just the thought of them make us smile. But when a person says they have fallen out of love they have had a lot of bad feeling about this person and those bad feeling have over shadowned the good feeling you once had. the key to staying in love is to make it a point to look for the good moment in everyday life. For example: When my guy says thank you or please when he ask me to do something i savor the moment because i feel apprisiated with I hear please and thank you.
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@skyhss (1142)
• United States
23 Jul 09
its easier to fall out of love with someone than it is to fall in with them. the foundation of love is mutual trust and respect and if someone violates that trust or is disrepectful to you one time to many, love can turn to hate real quick.
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• United States
23 Jul 09
I have loved about three people in my short life so far. Though each time my love becomes stronger, for myself and my significant other. The past two people I have loved broke up with me, so I was forced out of love with them because there was no other choice, now since I do not love them anymore I see how stupid I was for loving them. I was a totally different person back then, very naive and also not very confident with myself. Now I am in a very healthy relationship with someone, I think partly because I now love myself, I feel confident in me and it makes me a better judge of character when it comes to getting into a relationship. I love the man I am with so much, it is just amazing, I am more knowledgeable now, and I feel better about who I am and feel very comfortable in every way with the person I am with. I think that you can finally have true love once that you respect yourself, you can really love someone when you know yourself. I hope I make sense!
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@payout (3794)
• United States
23 Jul 09
I only fell in love once in my whole life and I'm still with the person.. =] but I think people who fall out of love.. didn't really love each other that much. Not enough to keep the love going and stable. I think people in relationships have to keep the flame lit lol.. Go out sometimes.. If not go rent a movie. Have time for you both during the day. IF thats hard then try to plan something couple times a week. Just be happy.. I think people don't fall out of love.. Love falls out of people..
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
maybe for some it's true love... the only problem is their other half does not feel the same. i haven't met my true love yet so i can't share any experience/s. but... i fall genuinely to my previous partners and they doesn't feel the same....
• United States
23 Jul 09
its different for everyone. it might take a girl new in dating a short amount of time to fall out of love or a long amount of time because shes never experienced it before. and i believe 100 percent that its possible to fall out of love because people change. they really do so the person you fell in love with a long time ago could of got boring over time or got new friends and there whole personality just changed. i think prefect example is this movie i saw american beauty something like that he was always getting pushed around so he just changed started smoking pot. started buying exspensive new cars and just enjoying life.