Ho can I make my Grandmother FEEL worthy of love again after being abused

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She had gone through such an ordeal this past year. Last July she was so sick that she was in a coma and on life support. During that time all he so called child could do was fight over he belongings. When the Lord answered my prayers and gave her back to us I thought that they would be differant. Well one of her daughter offered to move in with her and care for her. We all thought that it would be a good thing. Someone there with her 24/7. Well little did we know that she had a aterior motive. She began to over dose her on her insulin causing her to be out of it all the time. She was not able to make decisions and started becoming more ill. It seemed every week or so she was being hospitalized. No one could figure out why. Until I decided to make it my mission to find out what the heck was going on. I started spend more time around them. And I saw things. I watch Debbie( the daughter) screaming at her. I found out that she was abandoning her for days at a time. All she had to eat where microwave hot dogs. And the worst thing, Grandma was in constant pain. Debbie had been stealing her Pain Meds and selling them. Now, I ask you after all this how can I bring my grandma out of this sad stat she has found. for some crazy reason she feels like its all her fault. She has 8 kids and none have come to her rescue. Only me. her youngest grandchild. When she talks about them I see in her eyes the sadness she feels. She feels so alone. I have moved her in with me and my family. And it has seemed to help a little, but she asked about my Aunts and Uncle all the time. I don't want to lie to her, but I have called them and begged them to come over and spend time with her. Even for a few minutes. I have offered to bring her to them, but they always come up with an excuse. On this past mother's day. I called all 8 of them and told them I was taking her to her favorite restaurant. And begged them to come. Do think anyone showed up. I don't want to tell her that her kids say they are too busy for her. I quit my job to be here with her. I try and take her out. We do lots of fun things like shop, bowling, and play euchre every Saturday, but she is still sad. What can I do. Should I call a counselor?? I want her to be happy. She DESERVES to be happy. Please Help