Do you really listen to advices here in mylot?

I can't speak for others but for me...I've gotten some pretty decent advice on here and yes...I've listened to it. I had a tax problem this year and one lady who'd been thru a lot with the system helped me out a great deal. I've on a couple of times had a problem with my car and the thoughts from others help me out...at least help me to be better informed. Yes...I have gotten some great advice on here and yes..I do listen.

Hi friend, Here people use to share their experience because of the knowledge their have in it and may be they also experience the same thing in their life before.If they are good enough i think it is good to follow it otherwise just keep it aside.It all depends upon as how one thinks.By sharing one's personal here,i think we are knowing each one opinions about it and knowing all that we can think that how we alone think about it.In each everyone can't see the same thing like others.If you keep one thing in front of them and ask about their opinion each would say their opinion about as how their feel.It is all that you should know which are the best opinions and if you think it is good to implement it,implement it otherwise keep all the things aside.I feel it is good to share one's experience unless otherwise it is within their limits. have a nice day

Sharing problems here at mylot is very very rewarding, at least for me. I have started discussions mainly on my personal problems here and each and everyone of them have been very informative. I have been amazed by the way how people all over the world most think similarly on the basic issues of relation, family and kids and their advises have been very very helpful.

Most of my discussion have been real honest needing advice discussion. I have gotten some pretty neat ideals and suggestions as well as what they would do.I wrote an discussion about a problem I had and didn't know what to do. The response was grand and Yes I was able to solve my problem with their help. I know as far as myself Im true in my responses. I respond to the way I feel instead of telling them what they want to hear. I have become more involved in these discussion on mylot then what I thought I would. It is no longer about money.

I enjoy reading the opinions of the others. In fact, I find some of the information here quick enlightening and helpful. I do ask questions, and then I appreciate the feedback. At times, I just search for existing discussion, and I am really surprised how knowledgeable the members of MyLot are. Bravo.

I love giving advice to people although it probably doesnt help them any it makes me feel like ive accomplished something good and i dont forget about those people and i try to pray for the ones that need it. It also gives me a perspective of other peoples problems out there in the world and that i am not the only one with these problems.

When I post asking for advice I usually attend to take others tips into mind in hopes it will help me. I rarely ask advice though. I mainly come and post when I just need to get stuff off my chest and have no one else I can talk to.

Yes, you are right. There are lots of members here who post discussions to ask some advices and actually, I am one of them. When I post a discussion here asking for an advice I got a lot of responses. What I did is read all the responses provided by mylot members. Then I tried to weigh all the advices given, after combining all the information gathered, i try to arrive in on decision. I find advices here very helpful.

As I read this discussions my friend. I don't understand why you call those people's devil's advocate? I don't know if you really understand some people writing a discussions that asking for some advices here. I don't know if you feel that those people are writing only to benefit them?We are all here to make some extra cash as well as learned from our fellow mylotters. All of us have different stories in life, and don't telling that word's because you know yourself too. If we read discussions that someone telling about the history of his life and afterward they ask advices to ease what they burden that they have. We are all here ready to response if we feel that we can help a little for that persons... My friend I responded about your word's "devil's advocate" because we need to respect people here not to destroy... happy mylotting my friend....

It is just a good way for people to express themselves. many people have problems and a lot of times all they want to do is be heard. Also it is not bad to read what other people have to say and actually see different points of views. It is a good way to just be open minded and maybe see things from a different perspective.

The problem is before post discussion to ask help, user should do research in similar discussion that have been posted before. And The good news is, myLot have been told us about it in their guidelines. http://www.mylot.com/o/guidelines.aspx Make sure you search for existing topics before starting new discussions. I see a lot of them asking same thing that have already posted.

I don't really ask for personal advice here, but at times I have responded to such discussions. OK, hypothetically, let's assume for the sake of this discussion that I have indeed asked for some advice coz I am facing a personal issue.Would I take the advice people give me? Well,to be quite honest, I will consider all the constructive advice that comes out.The decision I make will obviously be my own. But then, when people give advice it may very well include ones that did not come up in my mind, so why not ponder over it and then decide. That would be my attitude.

Hello tomjoad this is checkmail and often do listen to some advises here in mylot.Mostly i follow the advises which suits me and are affordable to me, like getting started with some new programs.I use to sepnd a lot of time surfing the net, but got an advise in MyLOT to respond more tot eh discussion over here as well as start some own discusison, and also have joined some earning programs with friends here.I try my best to follow advise which are best in faith og mine.

Dear tomjoad, Wow, this is serious topic, you might get some arrows..no worries..you got your daggers ready,...lol :D I personally think...some are genuine discussion who really need some advice to help them with some decision making or personal matters! Life is like that, sometimes it is better to open up to strangers who you do not know and vice versa. This is on the web and nobody's really obligated to give biased views. So the response will be from the neutral point of views, this will definitely help compare to those whom knew you too well! When we have 3rd party response...it is more truthful and before you make any decision, go thru all the reliable responses and the final decision is still within you! Be happy and response more, you might really help someone out there :)

Well let me tell you one thing, its always good to share your problems with your friends!! At mylot you get solutions almost instantly. Its upto you to decide to listen to your friends advice at mylot. I certainly take all the advice from all my friends at mylot.

I guess that's what's special in Mylot. I myself am more comfortable sharing personal problems here, because most of the time, I get responses that are very objective. They are not biased because the one giving the advise don't know me personally, nor the person I have the problem with.

Well I have to say i really been posted discussion like that.Asked for help need advice and suggestions.I really don't think it's just a medium to let people pay high attention at least i am not And i will considered their suggestions if it works.I think people don't so bored.Maybe they really lost need helps.All those i think about.It's my opinion Hope you don't mind

I think almost members good advice but some are joke.For me i like to know about every comments.

tomjoad, I am still new in MyLot, however sometimes posting seeking personal advises will be useful as people here hardly know us, and they would not have any prejudice on the topic. I have yet to really seek advises from our MyLotters however why not have a second opinions on how people look at it and you may have some useful tips though... decision made is still on us, however the more good advises we got, the wiser we are in making decision right? Happy MyLotting

Hi tomjoad^^,, I've ever post a discussion that ask or advice. I've got many response and yes, of course I read all the response and I make a list of their advice, because what I ask in the discussion is really my little problem and I really wanna know the solution. The advice really help me a lot. Now I know where to go if I need some advice : mylot,, hahaha^^,, Really, all the different advice and I pick the best one. Maybe you should start a discussion if there's something you wanna ask because from my experience the advice given by myloters help a lot. That's my experience. Thank you^^,,