I'm in love with my best friend...

she says she likes you, what is your attitude? you treat her as your best friend or want to make her your lover? it is very important. in my view, friends are friends. lovers are lovers. you shouldnot confuse them. you have to make a quick decision. lose a best friend or get a new lover, no other option.

I wouldn't wait around for her. If she really loved you she wouldn't be with her boyfriend she would be with you. You may just have said that so you wouldn't feel hurt, which is wrong. She shouldn't have told you that if she is going to just stay with her boyfriend anyway. sorry to hear that this is happening to you. Unrequitted love.

So what is your relationship with her exactly? Are you intimate? Are you just real good friends? If you are just friends then it may be that is exactly how she sees you and of course she will not leave her boyfriend. If she has come to really love you and you are intimate then she has a real problem breaking up with that boyfriends. If you can answer these questions you may then have your answer. A very close friend can love you every bit as much as a boyfriend but that is not what you want. Have you talked about her breaking up with her boyfriend? Are you afraid to bring that up because you may loose her? Well guess what....if is time to get real about this relationship and know where you stand. You have the right to know that and she needs to make you aware of it. Do not let this continue for fear of loss. If she does walk out what have you lost? A good friend perhaps but that is all.

If you start loving her then only it is your problem.If you want her as a best friend alone,then it is her problem.So,analyze your self and find out what is really in your mind.Can you think of her as a lover?As you could have started with friendship,you can remain like that.Cheers!

dont blieve dat.. well if you are really love the girl she there at you side not in her boyfriend now... or be sure if you love her as a guy or as a friend.. why dont you assk her?

I think you should think about yourself. She's not showing her true feelings towards you. You are worth more than seconds or handouts. If she can't be true to you or herself, it's not worth it. Find someone that is willing to give you what you deserve. Let her know that! Be up front and real, and let her go.

I think you can tyr to figer out whether she really likes you or not and do you want to start a relationship with her.If she just wanna get something from you,and you just wanna to be her bestfriend,then you can forget all her words.if she really loves you and you too,i think you can give her some time to deal with her bf.in my mind,making a mistake is beeter than missing each other.

lynsie! I think it is either she is really in love with you, but she can't cut her relationship with his bf. Or she doesn't really like you but she doesn't want to end the relationship with you. I dunno If the girl really wanted you as a best friend or she gets benefits from you as a best friend. Whatever kind of benefit is that. I am sorry. But I already experienced that before and it is terrible. I am so hopeless because I am the third party. I can't tell it to anyone because I am so ashamed. It is a sin. You know that. But yeah love is love. You must sort it out before it will ruin your life and turn into something you don't like. Good luck and God Bless.