Do you like staying away from your parents?
By sonam14
@sonam14 (141)
India
July 24, 2009 1:59pm CST
I dont. Actually i do not like staying away from my parents, but cant do anything for i am a girl and have to live with my husband. but i have noticed one thing and that is that after my marriage i am not able to live at my parents' home too because i can not live without my husband too. It is difficult for all the girls i think What do you say?
4 responses
@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
24 Jul 09
Two years ago, I began college, and lived in residence or in my own apartment ever since I began college, except for last summer. And I find myself not being able to live with my parents anymore. I don't think that it's just because I'm away from my fiance, when I'm staying at my parents' place. I find myself getting annoyed with my parents and my sister.
@sonam14 (141)
• India
18 Aug 09
I dont understand why you are saying this dodo. I think my parents are my best friends. After my marriage, i als cannot live without my husband. even that i cannot live at my parents' palce but still they are my priority and i cannot stay alive if i dont talk to hem once a day. Anyways, may you have a good bondin with your parents.
@smart44 (510)
• Philippines
19 Aug 09
I love staying with parents, but we are of different house, but we are in one barangay, since its very difficult that you are in one house only, we are staying in one place but different houses. I love my parents, and they love us too, when they need our help we dont hesitate to help them. We need to serve them to the fullest because they did everything for us to be a good citizen to have a degree, to have a good future. I return we need to take good care of them too even though we are not living with them. We need to look after them.
@dianagnes (1088)
• Singapore
24 Jul 09
So far,all my 20 years..i have been staying under one roof with my parents.They are still supporting me and protecting me as their daughter.As a student still,i could feel that i want to be away from my parents once in a while.I would love to have the chance and try but it does not got onto me.I want to be independent.
For as in future,suppose im married,i will want to have my own home and it shows that im quite ready to be away from my parents.I think its the other way round,my parents could not be away from me..haha
Girls need to depends on others for example their parents and husband..so i think for you,you still need the care of your parents but at the same time your husband is another priority for you to look out for.Both are important in our life.Be it how far away our parents from us or we do not stay with our parents anymore after marriage..we still have them near to our heart. =)
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
24 Jul 09
Hello,
I came from a country that girl allow to leave the house and stay with the husband, if she wants or she can stay at her own home if the husband agree. Both way will work for us.
To me, I would love to stay different house from my parents, the reason why is I dont want them to see or how we live. Sometimes if we are in a fight then they hear and see it, it makes them hurt. So, I stay away is a lot better. I can visit them as much as I want.
Also, it is really private for new married couple too.
