What do you think of a relationship btw a young man and an elderly Women?
By monishavakil
@monishavakil (1019)
India
July 24, 2009 2:04pm CST
Hi,
Do you think it is bad for a young man to fall in love with an elderly women? I dont think. Why do people look at it as a tabboo or something wrong or bad.
Wll i would say it is just natural. When two people meet get a long and fall in love they do not look at age before fallin in love now do they?
I think it is natural and you? what do you think?
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4 responses
@catherina1982 (135)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
i think its a natural... we only a human we dont know wat happen in our future.. many person say dat if the guy are younger dan the girl is an ugly,the reason is he dont know how to handle a good relationship but 4 me watever ur age ur free who know u love... and you love each other understand each other dat is a important
@Improbability (140)
• United States
24 Jul 09
I am always the first to say that age doesn't matter. But you know, that has a limit, and young to elderly crosses that line. Why? Because it's NOT natural. An elderly woman can not fulfill a man's need to procreate. It also screams of taking the Oedipus complex a little too far. Not too mention, anyone should want to enjoy their youth with someone who can share it with them. I'll admit that there can be some situations where it is pure and simple love with no other issues, I just don't see many of those.
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
24 Jul 09
Hello, I feel if it has nothing to do with me why should I let someone elses relationship bother me.I don't feel I have the right to judge some one on their own choices when I have nothing to due with their choice.If people find love I don't care how old or young they are. I'm happy for them.
@wiggins6 (61)
• United States
24 Jul 09
I think that it is ok, unless it's a twisted situation where a young man is trying to take advantage of an elderly woman, or if the guy is a minor. People will always have their opinions though. Some people think that it is not ok for my husband and I to be married and have our children because he is 5 years older than I am. We met when I was 18, married when I was 20 and had our daughters when I was 20, 21, & 22. I was young, but I was just as if not more than mature as he was at 25, 26, & 27