Really need to know what you think about this (relationship problem)
By t_hackett22
@t_hackett22 (122)
United States
July 24, 2009 5:52pm CST
I have been talking to this guy for about a month now, he is a mutual friend of some of my family members. When I talked to my family about this guy everybody basically told me he would be a good person for me to talk to. So we have been talking for a little over a month, but the thing is we having been with each other in person since we live in 2 different states.
So last weekend I had planned a trip to visit him, but things got screwed up and I didn't make it out there. So I told him I would be there today, well once again things just didn't work out because there was no seats on the plane I needed to take. Now I can grab a rental tomorrow and make it out there tomorrow, but he is so hurt, angry, and disappointed that I am afraid to talk to him.
Do you think that he will be able to forgive me a second time?
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4 responses
@nygurl5000 (44)
• United States
24 Jul 09
he has to ! it isnt ur fault ! when he sees u again dont worry hes gonna forget all about (= he probably mad becuase hes always puttin his hopes up and is let down ,
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@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
25 Jul 09
Long distance relationships are hard in the first place. Maybe these things that kept you from going there were fate. If he is angry with you about something you couldn't help, I would think that would be someone you just don't need to be with. If he is just disappointed that is understandable. Don't be afraid to talk to him, just let him know how disappointed you were too. Hopefully it works out for you. Good luck.
@hulaboy (319)
• Micronesia
24 Jul 09
If he doesn't forgive you then he's not the right one for ya. Plus why doesn't he come visit you? He's supposed to be the gentlemen right?
@happyness3 (394)
• United States
25 Jul 09
Long distance relationships are hard in the first place, but he shouldn't get mad at you. In my experience this means that he doesn't really trust you. They is usualy what happens when they 'hurt and angry' over these little things. I wish you the best of luck with this and I hope that I am wrong!
