HEART or BRAIN..?

definitely, i'll stick to what my brain says... minds were created over our minds because God wants us to listen to our minds over our hearts... :)

Hi...This seem to be an interesting post. Most of us do what out heart says to make sure we feel good and satisfied with our decison. But we fail to use the power of our brain to make a good decision. We should use our brains to control our heart and not let our heart control our brains. Well its easy to say but its just very hard to do it. But in my point of view we need to utilize both our heart and brains to maintain a good relationship.

to me both are important without brain our relationships may go haywire and without heart our relationships cannot enhance.

For me i balanced when i selected the lover.I would use heart first.Then i would use brain when i try to study together.

I think that it has to be some of both. If you only choose with your heart, you could end up with someone that you love but isn't good for you. And if you only choose with your brain, you could end up with someone that is really safe and comfortable, but doesn't spark. But if you use both, then hopefully you can find someone who you love and is good for you.

I think both are important. Choose what you love and then love what you chose :)

Hello stricken43!!! The two things you mentioned in the discussion are the same thing for me. It is neither the heart, not the brain, both are the same thing to me, and rather call it mind. But I understand what you mean to say... I think the combination of both is needed to be really happy. Using only heart can be the short term happiness and then long term sadness because the brain is not used there. And again if we always go on seeing for security, we are not going to get the love at all. There is surely the risk sometimes... So, the mixing of both is my answer... happy mylotting...