having an HIV test
By devmitra
@devmitra (274)
India
July 25, 2009 7:30am CST
Helo mylotting friends.In this alpha age everything happens very fast,and sometimes even without a second thought.Over here in my country,most of the marriages are arranged by parents.Everything pertaining to the marriage is taken care of by the parents.Is it not then justified that the bride and the groom should be asked to have an HIV test before the marriage.
The problem is that atleast ninety five percent of the grooms families will never agree for any such test and asking for the same leads to verbal clashes and the marriage being cancelled at the end.I remember my cousin sisters marriage being cancelled for the same reason.What should be done in these cases.
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2 responses
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
25 Jul 09
Both parties should discuss this matter with care.Besides,there is nothing wrong with undergoing HIV tests,i guess it is even better for everyone.If ever any party will be diagnosed with such case,isn't good to have known it that early?HIV is not a crime...and the world is aware of this,and it is just a righful decission to undergone such test before marriage.
I personally agree with this agreement and request.This should be implemented in your community just like a part of an arrange marriage.If an arranged marriage is acceptable in your country,they,should accept the HIV TESTS as a part of it too.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
Thanks for the mark my friend.
In Mexico,blood typing is required for engaged couple before marrying,to avoid any abnormalities with their offsprings.It's not a big deal for them,for they know it is for their welfare.
Have a nice day 
