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Hi Nishima6, first of, welcome to mylot. In short of your discussion, all you need to do is co-ordinate with your spouse, toleration, compromise and sharing. Stop worry about those rubbish that get into your brain. Be Happy and enjoy!

A successful marriage life is hard to get. What you have to do, is find a man who loves you just as you are, won't hit you or say bad names when he's angry, won't leave you when you make mistakes, and is always responsible for the household. Start by doing activities together, and talk with him often, but never blame him for anything. praise him a lot, and ...learn to cook well.

Marriage is different from living together. It's not necessarily better, but it's different. Both of you will have different expectations of a 'spouse' than of a 'partner' - often basing those expectations on what you saw of your parents' married life. For example, you may have been happy for your man/women to live the student life before the wedding, but afterwards, you expect him/het to draw a regular salary. Successful couples talk deeply before the wedding about their expectations of each other, and if there's serious disagreement - for example he wants kids, she doesn't - they think seriously about whether to marry. After the wedding, successful couples also talk regularly to check their expectations of married life. If those expectations clash, they keep communicating until they have understanding and agreement.

hello nishima, married life is gift given by god.where one loving person will be beside usfor always to share every step of our life.Its really great experiance in ny one of our lives.n for the successful married life...both wife n hubby hv to understand each other requirements in evrything .they hv to be like better half for each other.yes ,in most cases there will be ego problems and conflicts for their individual behaviour.but one shld hv to tackle the issue peacefully,instead of arguing or fighting with each just like kids.so maturity of both in evry accept and caring and loving leads to successful married life.all the best and wish very good happy married life.

Married life is living out your parents house and build and create your own house. To have your own children. Independently you learn how to live in systematic way. From waking up early in the morning and preparing breakfast for the husband that is going to work. Doing laudry and cleaning the house. Everyday you know his/her character deeper. What's each ones dislikes and likes. Sharing plans for future. How you will understand each one of you. How you going to have a team work. How does your plans works in order for you to have a good house. How you solve problem in nice and understandable way. How you control your temper and your self. How will you ignore your egos. In order for you to have a successfull married life is you need to share what is in your thought, the plans with your partner. Talk about it together. What is the advantages and dis advantages. List down all of it and discuss it with understandable way. Make a solution that together of you will agree. If one of you commit mistake, discuss it in lower temper, try to understand each words, set aside your egos. Discuss the situation in lower voice and self control so you will not harm each other. Do not sleep without solving the problems. Or do let the night pass without solving the problem. If the you didn't solve the problem that night try to cool down. And sit down and talk about it on the next day. In racing you children together you make plans. Try to study your earnings in order for you to decide how many children you wish. How you will give them a nice house, nice school to study and how will you maintain their good health and so with our health. To dicipline your children, always respect partners diciplinary action. If you can bring your child in a room and talk in a nice way tell him what is good and bad educate that what he is doing is not right. But do not make an argeument in front of your children. Because it will start up of psychological throma which the child become aloft and scare or sometimes reason to become staburn. Always try to talk with a low voice and understandable words and discuss all situation without hurting others egos or feelings and try to solve problems that both of you will agree. You can see the results that you have healthy and happy family. I think by this you can have a successfull marriead life.