Do you take people at their word? How do you check or double check facts?

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This discussion is part three in this series of discussions that I've started. I have some people following via e-mail so I'm going to explain in more detail what has gone on but first here are the two related discussions. [There is a good chance that I will be arrested]http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2069641.aspx [I'm not arrested yet]http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2079627.aspx I have not hidden the fact that my wife and I became estranged as a result of a situation where a detective lied in order to gain a conviction against me. My wife became cohorts with the church to have me excommunicated as a result of trying to stop the injustice and my life was drug into the muck and mire where I have struggled to survive against great pressure to force me into some kind of false reality and to make me into a liar or a criminal. The love of the children has also been at stake as my wife has pitted them against me poisoning their minds. Recently at work I had to fill out some paperwork for a review of our Health Insurance coverage and providers the report wanted to know of any pre-existing concerns for my family members covered by Health Insurance. I filled out the form realizing that yes, my son has a issue from birth that needs to be removed and at 10 years old this was once again brought to my attention. This being July 25th and my son's fourteenth birthday a week and a half ago I figured it is time to make sure that the medical need is taken care of. I can not talk to my wife she will not talk to me so I don't know if this concern of mine has been taken care of and Thanksgiving 2008 when I went to visit and wish the children a happy Thanksgiving the police were called and I was told that I was not to step foot on the property or I would be charged with trespassing. So my wife is now playing keep away with the children. My wife and her employer concocted a scheme to punish me but why? Because I wanted to restore my relationship with my children and my grandmother as my grandmother was going through having her property and living rights taken by my stepmother who is very close to my wife. On the day before Thanksgiving my step mother called the police and was going to have me arrested for trespassing when I went to visit my Grandmother at my Grandmother's house, my step mother was punishing me to stay away because she didn't like my testimony in court the day before. Now to the latest incident with my son and the police chief. I having no way to communicate with my wife or son (communicate as in communication that is interactive) I figured I needed to see and make sure that the medical issue has been taken care of, so I defied the verbal order by the police not to trespass and I went to the door where my son resides with his mother on property that is rented through her employer. For that I could have been arrested. So on Thursday on a day that I didn't have to work because work is slow as the economy is so bad I made this visit and I got a call from the police chief about an hour later. I then called the police chief back and left a voice mail and then he called me back and we talked over the phone. The conversation ended with me telling him exactly what my concern was and he was going to call my wife and talk to her. He would then call me back and let me know her response. So yesterday I went to work and as I finished up early because of a lack of work we are not doing the volume of business this year as we have in previous years. So being half way to Chalfont from where I live, I figured that I would call to request the paperwork or reports on these incidents from Thanksgiving and this past Thursday. I would have driven down to Chalfont to pick up that paperwork that day, but the release needs to be approved and paperwork has to be completed as there are new laws pertaining to the release of such documentation. When I got home yesterday there was a message on my answering machine from the Chief he said... "Hello Mr. Landis Chief Campbell of the Chalfont police just to let you know I did make contact with your wife this morning and apparently your son has received all medical -- according to your wife all medical treatment that he needs at this time and he is fine. If you like give me a call back at ###-###-####. Other than that I would appreciate that both of you get some sort of a custody or visitation order in writing so that we don't have to go through all of this. Thank you" Okay, I've got two things here: First, I am working on the court process first things first, and we know the custody and visitation orders currently could be based on the fabricated information that exists in the system to my detriment. Secondly, to the point of the title of this post, there is a child born with a medical condition to my knowledge this condition has not been corrected and the mother is an admitted liar. Would you trust that the medical need of my child has been addressed and take her at her word for that or would you look to be absolutely certain that the problem has been removed? Personally I want to be certain that my child's future is not in jeopardy. If you leave things go too long they grow and become a great big mess, look at the mess created by a little lie by a detective, look at the damage all around the world created by one lie after another. We need to hold people accountable, sometimes a visual check is all that is required and most definitely transcripts and reports help to prove the facts.