If you are sad tonight, you will start sad discussions? you happy...happy disc?
By icesmile
@icesmile (7160)
Romania
July 25, 2009 3:14pm CST
Your discussion will reflect your feelings?
In love?discussions about love?
Problems about your marriage?
Problems with your kids?
Do you want eating something, and you don t know what?
you read a news and want others opinions?
All your discussions now will reflect what feelings you have right now?
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11 responses
@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
25 Jul 09
Yes, my discussions reflect my feelings at the particular time.When I feel sad,my discussions are sad too.I've noticed that the easiest way to start a discussion is to talk about the way you feel and share your feelings.Just say some words about what you experience and what you're worried about.Usually I start my own discussion when I need some support or advice.When I feel relaxed and happy,I prefer responding to discussions.
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@abenitez (501)
• United States
25 Jul 09
This is true and this goes for everything in life. The way you feel is what you put out on to others. That is why I believe that a person can instantly change their mood by changing their physiology. If you dont think this is true just see what happents to you after 15 minutes of dancig, or doing something you really enjoy. Your entire attitude changes.
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
26 Jul 09
If I am in a sad mood and want to talk about what's specifically makng me sad, I'll start a discussion on the topic, but I won't start sad discussions just because I'm feeling sad. If I do not feel like talking about what makes me feel the way I feel, I'll just start a discussion on something else that I may want to talk about.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
26 Jul 09
sad moods need happy discussions.
i kept thinking of a person last night and couldnt sleep and when sleep finally took over it was almost 4am. so am very sleepy now.
cheers ice.
ann
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@sonz_doreen (193)
• United Arab Emirates
26 Jul 09
I think that is right...but many people tend to keep their emotions to themselves unless they are in a habit of journaling their thouhgts online. I think many of the Mylotters get their inspiration for discussions by sharing their feedback with other members and posting their reviews on a hot, top or current discussions.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
27 Jul 09
I'm feeling very blue right but I don't make my responses sound miserable...
Sometimes when I come across things that make me really sad, I will create a discussion and talk about it to all the mylotters here but it depends; sometimes I just don't want to even talk about it and reminds me the sadness...
@marianna45 (1399)
• Romania
26 Jul 09
Hello there, i am sure that charm of this site is to be yourself, to post something what is real, people will trust more if is a discussion about what you feel now.
Sometimes a true discussions can be more intersting, so...to be sad, happy, bored or tired is a human feelings, we can be as we are.
@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 09
icesmile.. yes, it will surely have some effect on me. If I posted some relationship related question, I may just want to rant out what I am going through, If I post questions pertaining to parenting, I may be at the happiest mode as a parents. However, it will not reflect the feeling for the whole day though. Only that few mere minutes while I am doing the post, I will either smile or even just stern... Happy MyLotting..
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
26 Jul 09
it depends, there are times that i would like to push my pain away by making a happy discussion.but sometimes if the pain is too much i would directly tell it in a discussion. well, am kinda happy now because i can log in to this site, i just couldn't log in few hours ago.