Are you romantic?
By suchi60
@suchi60 (912)
India
4 responses
@adellene (57)
•
28 Jul 09
Well honestly sspeaking I'm not a romantic type of person.
Which i hate the most coz my husband is romantic though in a small ways,
but it makes me feel so insecure. and feel sorry for my husband.So i just make him feel so loved by doing his laundry clean and dry and help him untieying his shoelace when he got home. Just to catch up with him. Is it right??OMG
@suchi60 (912)
• India
28 Jul 09
adellene,
while you say that you're not romantic, you profess that you feel sorry for him. This shows that you love him but don't know how to show it. Doing the laundry or removing his shoes may be a way to show yoy care, but what you need to do is spend more time with him, make him his favorite food, and hug him when he gets home.
This could open up numerous possibilities after which anything can happen, which I'm sure, both of you will enjoy.
@RssDragon (42)
• Thailand
27 Jul 09
I am a romantic person... I feel romantic about everything. When you are a romantic person you gather love inside you, which keeps recharging itself and when you find someone willing to love you, you flood that person with all the passion and love you have been keeping. However, if your partner is not a romantic one... Well, you will go through a lot of hard times. You will have more kisses to give, more attention to provide, more feelings to share. Unfortunately, you will receive less than you are expecting from your partner.
If I stop to look at myself... I'd say that I am a person who needs to feel loved. it is like I have inside me so much love to give, but I want to receive love as well. I enjoy taking care of my loved one, and I want my loved one to take care of me too.
When you are truly romantic, you never miss a opportunity to show your love. So if you have someone who recognizes when his or her partner is being romantic and follows it accordingly, things work just fine.
@suchi60 (912)
• India
28 Jul 09
Being overtly excited and showing it in the open may not give you the desired result. You need to know to balance your act in such a way that your opposite partner remains keen and interested in you. This way, you can be sure that romance will be reciprocated.
@rmorefield (941)
• United States
27 Jul 09
I am definitely a romantic. The problem is, my husband is not. He's always telling me that I read way too many romance novels. LOL. I suppose that I do. But I may as well get the romance from somewhere, right?
@suchi60 (912)
• India
28 Jul 09
First up, its definitely a positive sign to say that you are romantic. In case your husband is not reciprocating your romantic overtures, try to get him to notice. You could try a few tricks of the trade and make him get interested, but going elsewhere to experience love is not something I'll advice. There's nothing like love in the family, and others are just artificial and temporary.
@000602518518 (88)
• China
27 Jul 09
i am romantic, but unfortunately my hubby isnot ,he is so realistic and rational. he thinks romantic is a word for silly women, not for a man. maybe i will look at mysfelf the same way from a third-person perspective?
@suchi60 (912)
• India
28 Jul 09
Romance is not just for women, but men as well.The problem here is that en are so preoccupied with their profession that they hardly have the time or inclination to romance. Also, men are succeptible to temptation and so, as women, its in your best interest to make him aware that you're around.
