What are the common reason of marriage broke-up?

The common reason for marriage breaks up is miscommunication, boredom, and disagreement.

I have been married for coming 13 years this August. During my early stage married, everything went terrible. It seems that my husband and I have never met due all single items were debated. Time past so quick. My marriage reaches to 5 years then I learned something. To be a good husband or wife, both should close either one eye or both. We can't sight the real person of our partner because it will turn things upside down, but if you took a blind step, avoid to focus on your partner habits, hobbies, hate and so forth, we shall move on together forever. I would say not to be over known on your partner purity as it won't bring you a better life in marriage. Being Blind and Deaf will sometimes wins many situations.....

I myself am divorced and remarried. To me and most marriages the top two reasons for divorce are Financial status of the marriage and infidelity. My first marriage fell apart because he allowed his grandmother to run his life and our marriage, even his feelings were hers in many areas. This is because she was the person that raised him. Once I was kicked out, I found out that he was cheating on me with a girl that had a kid and was in his bartender class with him. So much for honesty in why he kicked me out. He was with two other people after that and I filed for divorce. We were also financially strapped and owed a lot of money on bills in two different states. Most of which were in his name and mostly hospital bills in my name. I paid my stuff off on my own and he is still paying on his bills. At this point in my life, I am debt free, and he still owed around $35,000. He also could not keep a job for more than one to three months. Congratulations on your marriage! If you are having thoughts like this now, you really want to sit down and talk with your spouse. You should be financially sound before you attempt any kind of marriage agreement and at least own a car without any bills on the side (not including rent/mortgage, utilities, and hospital bills). You should feel free to talk to your spouse, while at the same time think about how you word things. She wants a listener, and he wants to fix things. But without listening to each other, neither of your will understand what you want from each other.

Hi, Marriage is relationship of trust. Ensure that your better half don't loose trust in you, neither you. The couples should have trust in each other, in any circumstances. Try to give time to your family from your busy schedule. Make your better half comfortable with you and she should have the confidence that she is always having you as backup whenever required. This will keep your relationship healthy. All the best for your future.

For i think the most important things in marriage is that don't complain too much about each other . Complaints will people even with good temper become crazy . When people face a lot of complaints he or she might have a very bad mood then every wonderful things turn to bad things.

you had and have these doubts and have only been married five months then you shouldn't have gotten married. How are you already foreseeing these problems? And if you are, can't you just make sure you work on a way to avoid them or work through them? You didn't mention any specific problems so it is hard to explain how to handle them and preserve a good familial relationship.

For me it is trust,honesty,openness,sacrifice,patience,truthfullness- this has carried me for 27 years and am still going strong by the blessing of the Almighty.There have been disagreement but we sorted it out after an argument - I mean when we both cooled off.

Dear friend why are you afraid. Only those persons get afraid who do not have faith nor trust in their partners. Think positive friend this feeling of being positive will bring you alive. I am a bachelor yet and i do not know how to be with a partner but yet i can say that create such a bond no power on this earth can break it. There are so many ancient couples who had a close bond with each other.

I am married for 1 year and 3 months. Based on my experience, it is very important that we accepted the weaknesses of our partner. We should not only love them for their good traits but also with their bad traits. For example, since he does not know how to cook, I accepted the task of cooking for him and since he knows I don't like cleaning the house, he do it for me. We do not nag each other for not doing things that should be done because at the start, we already know our weaknesses. We accepted and compliment each other. It is also important that you have the same values about money. Money can really be a cause of the downfall of any marriage. As much as possible talk how you should handle money. Happy myloting.

i think the main reason why marriages broke up is because of infidelity, people often cheat on each other and when they got caught in their game , their marriages will either broke up or have an unsteady relationship and that means they may not talk to each other

Lack of communication. This I believe is a huge issue with failed marriages. One person feels that the other's behavior upsets them. But they don't speak up. They bottle it up until they can't take it anymore. Feeling resentment towards the other they decide to end the marriage. If you aren't willing to face problems in your marriage or communicate with your partner you are going to be in trouble. But if you can talk openly with your partner you can resolve the little problems and issues and are more willing to forgive them for their little imperfections rather than dwell on them.

there a few, but i don't know if this is right: 1. lack of trust 2. lot more interested in third party 3. fights 4. lack of commitment 5. cheating 6. immaturity

For me you and your wife should have unconditional love for each other. The trust that both of you has been working for so many years should not be broken. Both parties should have open-mindedness,sensitiveness to the feelings of your partner and the most important to all is "COMPLETE AND CLEAR COMMUNICATION". The trials that your marriage would encounter is just a challenge and no matter what happens don't lose hope and don't be afraid to bring down your pride. always pray!!!!!!!!

Not trusting eachother is the worst, and finances. My personal favorite is distance it will get you every time.

The number one cause would definitely have to be money. The next would probably have to do with lack of communication due to things like work schedules which could lead to lots of issues including cheating, which is obviously a big deal-breaker. I have never been married, so I'm no expert or anything, but who really can be? I have been in a few long-term relationships and I've known lots of couples with problems and I think that the biggest issue is honesty. An individual is entitled to some privacy, but for the most part it is really important that secrecy is kept to a minimum. Trust is very important in any type of relationship and when a person in that relationship lies or keeps secrets it is very difficult for the other person to be able to keep that trust. I think that another good thing to do to keep a relationship strong is to ask about your partners day and such and to vent to each other about your worries and problems instead of keeping it all bottled up because eventually it is going to come out most likely by taking it out on the other person. Those closest to us are the ones we hurt the most.

Hi there.. i have my marriage for 7 years..and so many problems that we should face and solve it.. Your married will be all right..if you open your mind to solve your probs. More communicative, understanding to each other and find the right time to be together. If you really love your soulmate..i think you will never give up to make your marriage full of happiness.. thanks..happy mylotting :)

I think generally that the two reasons marriages get strained to begin with (which in turn leads to more and more problems and the marriage runs downhill) is financial issues and raising kids. Especially if one partner has financial issues (whether they are in debt or are running both people in the marriage into debt), it can lead into pretty big arguments. To be honest with you, the only arguments my husband and I have had thus far have been about his spending habits. You have to learn when to talk in a civil manner about things, though, and not let tempers explode. It has also been shown that an average couple's general happiness goes down significantly after the first child is born and only goes up to normal after the last child leaves the house as an adult. Many couples have arguments over raising the kids, who will take care of the kids, a lot of the times one person in the marriage will be okay with something their child does while the other is not, and that will start an argument. If I can find the study results on this I'll try to post them; I think it was an article about what strains a marriage most. Finances and kids led the list by far. Personally, I married my husband with the mentality that my wedding vows meant everything to me--and they still do. I don't care what happens...my husband could get a terminal disease or get put away in jail for life...no matter what, "for better or for worse," I will stick by his side. Divorce isn't an option for us, so we will fix our problems rather than run from them. If you don't want anything to destroy your marriage, be prepared to work on any problem, small or large, that is thrown your way. It might get hard but you can pull through. :)

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