Just imagine if you have more than 17000 friends in myLot

Annoyed - Annoyed.How to deal with when catching this status? When I got too much notifications from my friends at first time.This comix is my real portraiture
@aprces (1082)
China
July 27, 2009 4:39am CST
Do you limit your friends' number within a special range? Do you think that more friends is better? And How to balance the number of your friends? This is not only a numerical question but also a question about selecting and choosing I know most of us here is not mind approving friends at anytime.But were you adding friends in the past?If the answer is Yes then is the frequency of adding friends more than approving them by you? I think most of us weren't.Certainly,if we have more friends,then we shall get more communication,more topics and more a wider view When I was a newcomer in myLot first,I nearly let all "notify is on" via Email.Result that everyone here can guess out,not too bad,when I saw my inbox is full of Your friend XXX started a new discussion.I said to myself:Wow!aprces,you've got an excellent social relationships.After that,I closed some friends' notification & kept some on one by one.(PS:Actually,if myLot has this feature that help us to manage our friends through a batch way,that will be very good) Last sentence:If one day you got too many friends?Will you clean them termly? Then what's the frequency?
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iskayz
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
27 Jul 09
Hi there! I don't limit the number of friends here in mylot but I don't accept everyone neither. I try to check on the user first before accepting a friendship. I still have a lot waiting to be accepted. Some are even over 3 months and I think have been inactive already so probably I wouldn't be accepting them anymore. I don't know how many friends I do have at the moment but I don't have a hard time managing them. Well not anymore hehe.. Like you when I was new here my friends' discussions really overloads my email. I would just turn off the notifications of those who starts many discussions in a day. But after sometime, I noticed that fewer and fewer friends starts a discussion. So I have turned on all my notifications. I haven't tried cleaning my friends list. I wouldn't want to delete anyone though they have been inactive for long. I will still keep them as friends especially my old friends. Ciao!
iskayz
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
30 Jul 09
Well technically, a user who has made a friend request is still not a friend until approved. So those in waiting are still not my friends.. Yeah, I kinda watch them and see who is active on the site and he/she might get my approval.
abhi_arora
@abhi_arora (181)
• India
27 Jul 09
i never limit the no. of my friends..mylot is a social networking site..it does not only serve the purpose of online earing but also communication with the whole world.one gets to make new friends worldwide.i also try to make new friens here. moreover one gets more responses from a greater no. of friends and more discussions and hence more earning is there... so its a great deal to have more friends.
aprces
@aprces (1082)
• China
28 Jul 09
Hope you get more and more friends.First,why not add me?
divkris
@divkris (1156)
• India
27 Jul 09
i do not limit the numbe of friends here in MyLot - because that is why i'm here. And making more friends means more people responding to your discussions and it has a mutual advantage of growing - in terms of knowledge and also earnings. But i like the idea of sorting friends - probably you can post this idea to mylot :)
aprces
@aprces (1082)
• China
28 Jul 09
Thanks for your agreement for this: "if myLot has this feature that help us to manage our friends through a batch way,that will be very good",but myLot maybe not.I rarely write to myLot admin