Do you find when you make plans..

I always look for an alternative - any disadvantage-I try and change it to my advantage-and I have been successful-till now.

If I allow them too, then yes. When I make plans I usually make two sets so that I have an alternative if the first then gets spokes put in its wheels

Don't forget, if you want to give God a good laugh, just make plans!

yes its always one of my friends messing stuff up.

Making plans doesn't work at all for me and hasn't for years. Even if I make alternative plans something always seems to come up and I can't follow through. So now I am that spur of the moment person. I see something I want to do and I have time to go, I go. I don't wait and make a plan, I go with the flow of each day, works out much better most of the time.