What are the common reasons of break ups?
By xio shi
@simonelee (2715)
China
July 28, 2009 12:40am CST
Failed relationships are one of the biggest causes of stress and unhappiness in life. Working on successful relationships, whether they are with our children, parents, friends or partners, is one of the most important life skills we can learn. If we cannot maintain lasting relationships, we will always struggle to be happy.
I come with 7 reasons why certain relationships failed and here are those;
1. Jealousy
2. Attachment
3. Domination
4. Selfishness
5. No time
6. Too much time
7. Picking faults
What do you think guys? Do you agree with these reasons? Any ideas to share why certain things are not working? Love to hear from you.=p
4 responses
@meetpriyam (40)
• India
2 Aug 09
Basic reasons of failed relationships is person views.this views changes from person to person ,and make a person egostics.sometimes,this failed relatiomship responsible for unhappiness and stress in life.are u agree with my point or not ......?????
@esteria (396)
• India
2 Aug 09
Relationships fail not because people have different views. It fails because you stop looking at others views. Every person is different or unique, if you could keep that in mind. You will always find that no matter how different the other person is your relation will never fail with him.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
13 Aug 09
you have a point. often, couples are too blind to see and understand each others views. we can't really tell what are the major reasons of break up's but it is important to examine ones thought.
@cintiu0110 (26)
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
ya i believe on this things but maybe it's more on falling out of love on the person and incompatibility,this are the two very common faults for break ups.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
29 Jul 09
I agree with you. Falling out of love is the most common reason of failed relationship.
@wigima5 (904)
• United States
28 Jul 09
I agree. those are pretty much big reasons why ppl break up. Also saying things without thinking tat come off to others as rude. And forgetting to cherish ppl. Also like you said too much time, once you get used to someone for a long time you take advantage of how great they are and forget how great they are and also a lot of ppl get bored with them. Also cheating is a big one. And many different opinions like how to spend money, make house decisions, where you'd like to go, what type of person you are, etc. And not knowing the person well enough which ties in with ur No time thing.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
immature..or puppy love..Its just a feeling of attachment towards other person and he or she think that's love. That for me is the main reason if your a teenager.
In twenties.. I think priorities in life..
Like job works..
You think your relationship is not worth to sacrifice...
Young generation today seek attainment more than a relationship.
That why America has high rate of divorce simply because they want to do something that day can't do if they are married.
Thirties..am..Are you to old for break up? common.. lolz
@simonelee (2715)
• China
10 Dec 09
30's? hahaha lets see if I'm already at that age and my relationship is not successful. They said if the guy is in 30's and still immature he will no longer change. He will be stocked in that character and attitude forever. In breaking up i guess personal issue is the major reason. Having a hard time identifying what really it is until the relationship get affected.
