if your boyfriend told you he'll leave you if you get fat, what would you do?

I would not even date someone , that would consider saying that to me. Who is he to say this type of thing ?What happens if he gets fat.I guess that's ok for creeps like this. Your friend should ditch this guy for one who loves her no matter what happens in the future.

my ex boyfriend left me, because i was normally body girl, not skinny... now i am very happy. i am merried now.. my husband has overweigh, looks fat, but i never leave him, because i love him! of course, men want to have very sexy girl beside, prode that his wife/girl is very beatiful, sexy and...to know that his friends would like to have her, but she is his!.. But if you really love a human you will love him with no point.. it will be not matter he/she is fat, slim or even have a sirious ill and bla bla... i think this guy do not respect her and i think there is no love... he like to be with her, (maybe make a"love"). But i know few men whose divorse because their wives looks too fat..

well, leave him. he is one superficial person!

How dare him? I would tell him that was my appearance much more important to you than my love for you? Because I think love is much greater than appearance. And above all what if she really turns fat when she has already been married to himthen will him leave her and go with someone else? This is not acceptable to me though.

I would break up with my boyfriend if he got fat - and I told him that straight to his face. Also I would never date someone that was fat and there is one reason behind it. If you don't care enough about your body and therefore get fat and become unhealthy how am I suppose to think you are going to care about me? Yes there are people that have illness that makes them overweight and that is different - but most of those people will get obsessed and still not try to diet or go to the gym and use the illness as the full excuse. So if you're fat, eating right - no junk food, and exercising 3-4 times a week and doing everything in your power then no shame on you, but if you aren't doing all the above then learn to love yourself the right way instead of showing your love my stuffing food down your face, and then maybe I might love you.

seriously though, why would your be with this guy that seems like he only cared about her physical appearance? Also, it really is the most inappropriate thing to say to someone you're in a relationship with! If you're in a relationship, it must be because you love/like each other, if he had a problem with her being fat, then he shouldn't be with her in the first place! Your friend deserves better! I totally agree with you, it's incredibly shallow to break up if she becomes fat!!! We girl's have pride too, maybe we like our man to be a little muscular and not too skinny! See what he says about that! ;)

hello raenie, I think he doesn't love her much if he say that to her. No matter what she looks if he really loves her, he will never leave her. Making such a joke to your love one is not funny at all. Your friend should think a million times before spending the rest of her life to him.

If I had a boyfriend like that, I'll feed him a lot so he'll get fat, then I'll break up with him, so he'll know how that feels.

In a relationship it is very important to know how to keep a balance of everything, sometimes we are compelled to do things which will only prove advantageous to your couple however it might be a simple lie also so a relation needs many ingredients and to make it in your own taste you have to discover and apply new methods of recipe sometimes.

If he want to leave her due to her being fat (whether it's true or not), she should be glad and break up with him since he's an a**. That guy is not worth it. Being in a relationship is to accept your partner for who she is. Her body condition should not effect his love for her. If he want to break up for such a stupid reason, she should walk away too. He don't know what he's missing.

in my opinion, he's not loving her enough or totally. in fact, even he doesnt like the fat. he can tell her she's more beautiful when thin. only this words, i believe she will understand. while not so, to hurt her.

what kind of boyfriend he is if he would tell it to me that thing.. he is a complete sh**.. if he will leave me, so go away.. i don't really care.. it just mean that he is after in my body and not in my personality.. i will not let him do that to me, firstly i will break him easily and give him a big bang in his face..!!

i'll stick his head between his legs and let him kiss his own as*!

if my bf will tell me that he will going to leave me if im become fat then ill drop him on that very moment... coz it means he doesnt love me at all. and maybe his only using me as a display.... and what if i reverse the question to him.. like telling him that i will stay sexy and be more pretty but if he will be the one become fat as normally married guys are fat.. what will he think if i leave him and go for someone with abs and muscles?

Hope he meant this as a joke; else just dump him. A guy who will just disappear when you pull on a few pounds, isn't going to be any good. If he had offered to help her lose those weight, or encourage her to go on a healthy diet - now that's someone who's constructive and supportive!

If my boyfriend were like that I'd dump him right away! Fortunately, he isn't. I know this for a fact because I used to be slim at the first 3 years of our relationship. I've gotten fat, though not really fat, just chubby, and he still loves me very much. That's the type of guy that every woman should have. If a woman sticks to a guy even though she knows that the guy won't love her anymore if she got fat, then that woman doesn't really value herself.

How could her boy friend tell your friend like that? How rude i think. There is no reason to consider again what kind of her boy friend are. So if he tell your friend that will break up over her getting fat very often..find someoneelse who loved you as you are..

dump him IMMEDIATELY. That guy doesn't serve to be loved at all. What a maniac.

If he said that he will leave u if u get fat then he is not a great guy to be hanging out with to begin with.Dump him before he dumps u!!

Tell the boyfriend - " I really want to see what options I would have if you get fat honey. Can I date Mark today???"