Situations and Suggestions - Sibling Partiality
By anaida1
@anaida1 (43)
India
July 28, 2009 6:32am CST
Ok people, I want to tell everyone that I need your reviews and opinions about so many things in relationships. WHY???? BCOZ dats exactly how we learn to understand different situations of different people and help them right????OK - SITUATION OF THE WEEK
Have you even been a victim of sibling partiality? Why does a parent favour one child or ignores the other child completely?
How did you get over it? If you didn't get over it, why not?
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
29 Jul 09
I've never experienced this before but I must say that in these kinds of situations, it surely has happened and would definitely take some time to get over this barrier thing in which the non-loved sibling has to go through.
I've seen this happening in other families before and believe me, I've wondered a 1001 times for why some parents favor 1 children against the other. And when say there are a lot of children, they will have 2 favorites against the rest or only love 1 and not love the rest and etc.
The situation can definitely differ and there are different scenarios and instances definitely. I hope parents can realize that they are being unfair. Luckily my parents are loving and do not have this sibling-love stigma..
@anaida1 (43)
• India
30 Jul 09
Hey ZED!
I am glad everything is normal at your end. Actually I am the more loved sibling here....and I can see the ifference it creates betweeen my younger brother and me. So I tend to get fiercely protective for him. I mean thats how I came to get along with my bro. Or it could have really been a disaster.
I don't revel in the attention I get. I hate it and I just wish someone other than me would glorify my brother....someday...
Thanx for the opinion though!!
Cheers!
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