It's over when.... what do you think?

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
July 28, 2009 7:44am CST
Some effectual tips NOT to be clueless: 1. It’s over when there’s already a missing link between you and him (her). 2. It’s over when you do all the moves and nothing from him (her). 3. It’s over when you keep on communicating and he’s (she’s) not. 4. It’s over when suddenly you become nostalgic. 5. It’s over when you long for more and he (she) gives less and less as days go by. 6. It’s over when you wish you could turn back the time when he (she) still keeps promises as he (she) tells you. 7. It’s over when his (her) world now evolves in so many happenings and events thus leaving you behind. 8. It’s over when he (she) wont whisper sweet nothings and say “I love you” anymore unless you say it first. 9. It’s over when he (she) pretends that he (she) is so busy to remember your date or appointment. 10. And finally, it’s over when he (she) says it’s O-V-E-R! Period. No questions asked. What do you think? I don't agree with most of what's said because you can't really expect your relationship or your partner to be always sweet. There will always be ups and downs and if you really love the person, you got to work with each other and communicate to fix things. Well, that's me, how about you? do you agree with these things?
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@melycota (87)
• United States
28 Jul 09
Is this a poem or are you venting???
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
29 Jul 09
Ah no, neither is it a poem nor am I venting. I just read this somewhere and thought it would be interesting to share it here in mylot.
@ynahh1 (454)
8 Nov 10
Its over for me when the person you wish to loved in returned doesn't respond.Do not make any move to a person doesn't know how to feel your moves,don't be blinded to a person doesn't know how to appreciate.learn how to give-up and move on if every time you are hurt.rather to asked yourself it isn't enough?why not to forget all.If you know that your left behind,accept the truth that he/she no longer wanted you...Dont be so pride less in the word "SORRY"AND I DON'T WANT TO LOSE YOU".if that is true they will prove it.
• United States
28 Jul 09
There are a lot of hints you can tell when your relationship has come to its last. I know my last relationship ended when i found him cheating on me and was not happy at all. But i could figure it out a couple months before that he was acting weird and i thought he was lieing to me and not acting nice to me anymore and treating me really bad and i was crying all the time. You then know your relationship is not going to work and you just need to give it quits even after a long period of time like mine was. Thinks happen and people change and that's life and you have to deal with the consequences sometimes. Life takes its turn sometimes for the worst, but you learn to live and move on with your life and enjoy your life as a single person now or maybe not as single person.
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
It is hard to just base it on actions. One surmising that it is over basing on these actions will not give you closure. It is still best that the two of you will talk it out. It had to be verbally communicated. From there, you can easily move on and go on with your life.