Online Chatting

I agree with you. I don't think it is a very good idea either. When we are chatting on line we cannot tell if someone is telling the truth, or even what type of person they are. If she will not quit insisting on meeting the guy though, do it smart. Suggest a group date in a brightly lit public place and bring quite a few friends, and your own transportation and cell phone so that way if anything goes wrong you and your sister can get out of there safely, and have a way to call for help if need be. I actually met one of my best friends that way, but he was thinking the same thing and we both showed up with full posses just to be sure. That was back in 2000 and we've met up at least 3 times a year since.

I don`t think that`s something that you shouldn`t do . meet a bay , if you like him, but go with more girls , or someone you trust to that meeting . You must be a little carefull , but you should meet someone from the internet . Why not? Maybe you`re loosing the man of your life ... who knows? Until you`ll find out all by yourself, you can`t know for sure .

I have mixed feelings about this. In a way, I don't really think it's that much different than meeting someone in a bar or nightclub, etc. You actually might find out more about the person by talking on-line than by chatting with them in a club. On the other hand, sometimes you can get a "vibe" or feeling about somebody when you meet them in person that you can't get when you talk to them on-line. If she really wants to meet this guy, then maybe you and a couple friends could go with her and arrange to meet him in a public place. That way, she is safe but can still get to know him in person. Also, she will get to see how he reacts to her friends and family, which can help her determine whether or not he is someone that she might want as a partner.