No Physical Intimacy?

If you've been together only eight months and there is no desire on her part I have some bad news for you. As much as you are into her she is not into you. Women put men into two classifications. Friend or lover. Once you have been put into the friend category you can forget her getting turned on. And sadly the more you push it, the more you tell her of your love and desire, the worst it gets. If you except this as true then one thing you can do that may help is to give her less of your time. If you just like being with her and do not want to give that up then keep on doing what you are doing. But if you want to recapture her interest you must try a different approach. There is a term that seems to work well. "Give her the gift of missing you". If you call her less...if you don't ask her out on a date as often......if you in general seem like you have lost interest, or your just to busy, you will gain hers. She will not know what is going on and she may come to miss you. When that happens you may have a chance. Ask yourself what do you have to loose? Well if she doesn't like you as much as you think it will be obvious because she will not contact you. Guess what that will tell you all you need to know and give you the freedom to move on. If you truly want a women who is into you like you are to her then you have to change your ways. What you do now does not work.

Usually the beginning of a relationship is the time when people can't keep their hands off of each other. If she does not want any intimacy this early in the relationship, it will only get worse. I married a man who was this way, and ended up divorcing him after 10 years of a celibate marriage. I thought he would change after we were together for awhile, he didn't. He agreed to go to counseling, then didn't. I ralked him into getting Viagra, then found out the bottle was empty and I was still celibate. Turned out he was gay, so no big surprise that he wasn't interested in me sexually. I still consider him a friend, but that was no way to have a marriage. I asked him why he married and he said because I was his best friend. You had better have a long talk with your lady and get it all out on the table now, before you both spend years being miserable for no good reason.