One sided love

India
July 29, 2009 8:47am CST
I wish to know the person who loves a girl/boy if its a one sided love are you happy to love the person even though you know that its only 1 sided love. My experience I loved a girl a lot lots and lots, at certain moment of time even she had feeling for me but i do not know what suddenly happened to her she suddenly started ignoring its almost 5 years past till today i do not know the reason why she went away from me its really like heart breaking, before she had feelings for me then suddenly goes far so far that i haven't even seen her till today and that she is doing her studies away from the city. Whenever i remember this literally tears roll out of my eyes. It is very hard to forget her. None of my days pass without remembering her, Every morning i get up i can see her face in front of me its is hard to forget her. this is my one sided love which hurts very badly specially when no one is there around and i am alone at this moment atleast its the worst. Friends share your experience of one sided love.
3 responses
@Twiddles (30)
• United States
30 Jul 09
My first love broke my heart and told my best friend and I'm quoting "in life you have to live, love, and get hurt and he just had to teach me". Whatever! I thank him, really, because he taught me for what real love was when it came around. That girl that started ignoring you really didn't love you because if she did she would have shared every given moment with you! When two people love each other unconditionally that bond is something so strong and loving. You will know..and all the tears that you already shed for this one girl have prepared you for what not to accept in your next relationship. There are so many other people willing to love you for who you are and give you what you need emotionally and physically. She just wasn't for you!
• India
30 Jul 09
Hey thanks a lot for your wonderfull response really loved it. I didn knew people are so caring at times really thank full to you. You are right some or the other person is there for me.
@sarcasms (120)
• India
29 Jul 09
this deos happen smtimes but i believe if ure meant to be together u will so u shldnt give up hope and u hsld atleast fr the last time tell her how u feel u can tell her the stuff u mentioned above to her if there was any feelings in her heart towards u she will defintely have to htink abt u..
• India
29 Jul 09
Ya you are right and thanks for your advice.
@varunsdo (204)
• India
30 Jul 09
Mine story is like this. I loved her from my heart. She became a very good friend of mine. But someone jealous of us backbite about me in front of her. So we had a break up. We didn't have a talk for about 2 and a half years. But guess what after so long time I got a friend request from her side on a social network. I accepted the request first but suddenly, I don't know why I deleted her as my friend. Now if you can Imagine the situation you must know whats going on with me.