No offense, but is there any answers besides "Thanks for sharing. period" ??
By corrycrystal
@corrycrystal (1775)
Malaysia
July 30, 2009 3:16am CST
First of all, my discussion is not to offend anybody. I just want to share what I feel and think of my experience and opinion after a month of joining this dynamic community. I find that some creators of discussions are prone to give the common "Thanks for sharing. period" when responding to the comments of their discussions. To me, I don't mind if I give a straightforward statement, it is expected I'd receive a straightforward reply.
However, I have noticed that sometimes when I or even other mylotters who have tried to give constructive responses will still receive the same "Thanks for sharing.period" feedback from the creators. I think it does not help in achieving the real purpose of creating a discussion. What do you think?
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12 responses
@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
30 Jul 09
Hi corrycrystal,
I also received that kind of comment a few times. And it is done mostly by the newbies or someone who have too many started discussion. When someone open too many discussion a received a lot of responses on each and everyone of it, they will not read all the responses and the best way to reply it by saying that "very polite" comment. It is better then nothing.
Mylot become more to question and answer forum and not a discussion forum. Creator crate a topic, get responses and creator give a comment ... Full-stop. No more comment back after that. This is very obvious here. Done by newbies or oldies.
I just wondering if they know the meaning of discussion. I also stopped at one response if I can't add anything from the comment. But I always try to crate something out of it.
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@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
Can we propose to mylot admin to change the word discussion and replace to it to question and answer? It is sometimes annoyed me especially if my response didn't get any comment after a few days. Its better if we only concentrate on giving our response if we can't spend our time to comment the responses.
@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
Hi, akuler! In fact I DID notice that this is mostly done by those users who have the tendency to create TOO many discussions at a time. In my opinion, if they can't cope with replying too many responses they receive, it is understandable. I don't mind if they take a few days to actually spend some time to read and respond. If they do not have the initiative and just plain lazy to do so, then it's useless for other users to comment in the first place.
You're absolutely right about what this place has become; create, respond and END OF DISCUSSION, then, start a new one...
@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
1 Aug 09
I don't think so... It is contrary to the original concept. To me, a few days isn't that bad. :) Some people just don't have all the time in the world to do just this... I am okay if they take some time to concentrate rather than making a quick response, but not practical.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
30 Jul 09
I absolutely agree!
It is synonomous of a lazy Lotter only here for the money. Any user who repeatedly comments like that is not interested in a discussion. They will also be very disappointed with their earnings and will probably, over time, receive fewer and fewer responses.
We are told to engage others in interesting dicussions and nowhere does it say that myLot is a question/answer site.
As you travel the Lot you will realise which users do that and it is your choice whether to respond to them in future or find other Lotters who are willing to discuss with you. There are many of them available
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@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
30 Jul 09
They are not only disappointed with their earning but make a lot of noise out of it. They are too happy to received a lot of responses and assume they will make a lot out of it. At the end of the day, they will complain that mylot didn't pay them. Too lazy to comment and too stupid to make such assumption.
@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
mysdianait ~ I recognize a few users who do this often. Sometimes they do start a few interesting discussions and receive many responses, but in the end the discussions become monotonous. I don't blame them if they are only here for money, but hoping to increase their earnings just by creating discussions and not interested to converse back, they are not only wasting their time, but those who participate in their discussions. I hope sooner or later they will realize that their efforts are not fruitful at all. Oh yes, I am sure I will find other genuine Lotters along the way. Thanks!
@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
mysdianait ~ Yes, I recognize a few users who do this often. Sometimes they do start a few interesting discussions and receive many responses, but in the end the discussions become monotonous. I don't blame them if they are only here for money, but hoping to increase their earnings just by creating discussions and not interested to converse back, they are not wasting their time, but those who participate in their discussions. I hope sooner or later they will realize that their efforts are not fruitful at all. Oh yes, I am sure I will find other genuine Lotters along the way. Thanks!
@lala501 (1532)
• United States
31 Jul 09
Yes I totally agree. I really get annoyed when people do that. It shows that they are just here for the money, and there not going to get any by just doing that. That's called spam. I usually work and think hard about answering a discussion. I would like to get the same thing back in a comment to my reply.
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@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
Here for money, who doesn't, but it will be slow and not much because of lack of qualities. That is one of the reasons a discussion supposed to be, think and contribute for the benefits of oneself and others.
@freebiesandsavings (358)
• United States
30 Jul 09
Oh so absolutely. Some mylotters will do this just to get in and make a quick comment and earn the few extra cents - Not sure, but quite honestly I think we are all guilty of doing this once in a while, myself included. I can see it is pointless and can be rather annoying for everyone.
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@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
That's very true. We can't force them to respond the way we want. If they are happy with their earnings by leaving such a comment to every discussions, then it is up to us then whether to ever respond to the discussions they create or not.
@skyhss (1142)
• United States
30 Jul 09
well, there's also my personal favorite "thanks for responding. happy mylotting". hehe. sorry, i'm in a mood:) if i respond to a discussion and thats the comment i get back from the OP, i won't respond to anymore of that person's discussions. i've only started one discussion but people took time, THEIR time, to respond to me and, imo, they deserve more for that time than a canned one line thank you.
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@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
Hehe... I'd do that also, before or after I add a few more lines or if there is nothing more to add. :D Good for you! I like those people who always consider other people's precious time.
@travelingtheworld (98)
• United States
31 Jul 09
Yes, I have noticed that as well. Although I just joined myLot recently, the several posts that I written for discussions have the same "thanks for sharing" and with nothing else. Of course I understand that sometime a discussion may have too much posts for the creator of the discussion to reply to it all in paragraphs and that's not what I'm expecting at all. However, it's like you said, after writing a pretty constructive comment that I feel that I put my heart into it, I'm kind of disappointed that "thanks for sharing" is all they post back. Then when I go back to the discussion, I see that the creator posted that for everyone else's. It makes me think that perhaps they didn't really read it or something. I rather they not post anything at all rather than the general thank you for sharing comment. If they do want to comment back, I appreciate some ideas or feedback on what they thought about what I say.
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@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
That is what I mean. Do they really read? Do they really want their discussions to get lots of responses? What if they receive a simple comment of "I don't know.period"? Will this make them happy or annoyed or just don't care? A 'general' thank you like you said does not make me feel appreciate especially when there are more to say.
@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
well, you are right ., it is not fair to say thanks for sharing especially if the respondent got some questions or clarifications ., we created this discussions for us to share some ideas or opinions ., so i think we shouldn't waste our discussions if its really a good one ., you really got a point ., have a nice day ahead!
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@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
Well said! What a joke if there is something to be discussed, but the respondent is left with "thanks for sharing" hehe...
@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
Yes, it's not wrong to leave such a comment if there is nothing more to say, and we can't force others to respond the way I want, but what a discussion is for? I just hope other users don't get me wrong when I raise this discussion; it's just my observation and what I think.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
30 Jul 09
Hi corrycrystal, you certainly aren't offending me with your discussion, you are simply raising one of my pet peeves. Simply put I would prefer to receive no response than that particular response, but it does have one advantage. I will remember the person who did respond like that and not bother with their discussions in future but am unlikely to remember them if I get no response at all. The 'sharing' response reminds me of all that touchy feely therapy on TV and turns me right off.
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@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
Hi, thea09! I agree with you. I have responded to a few discussions, which some have not been replied yet. So, I sometimes forget about it and will likely to respond to the users' discussions again. Thus, like you, I'd rather not receive any response than to receive THAT particular one that always leaves me asking myself, "is that it?" What a waste of effort.
@bluehibiscus (702)
• United States
31 Jul 09
I don't think I've ever said thanks for sharing, I always try to give my opinion...I usually want to extend the conversation.
@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
I think it's creative if one can diversify the discussions and keep them going and open for more ideas. :)
@polo_princess (803)
•
30 Jul 09
Even though i am new here i think its pretty lazy and quite rude to respond to people who have taken their time to reply to your discussions with responses like that. Fair enough if you dont have anything contstructive to reply to them with but 99% of the time you do so at least put a little bit of effort into things.
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@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
True. It is quite natural when one runs out of ideas and things to say, but if it's because of laziness, it is indeed ignorant and unfair.
@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
I am not sure about that because I noticed that some of these users have been here for quite some time already...