Do you think a girl or a guy can come between you and your bestfriend?

Philippines
July 30, 2009 6:39am CST
Do you think friendship can defy all odds even love? Here is the scenario: What if you've met the girl or guy of your dreams and then you found out that your bestfriend likes the same person? What do you do? Would you sacrifice your own feelings for that girl or boy to give way to your best friend or would you say screw the friendship. All is fair in love and war?
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5 responses
• India
30 Jul 09
i think boy only come as a best friend . Now a days girls are not looking for friendship . They are always have friendship for their selfish purpose . so boys is best always
@Elaine77 (315)
• China
31 Jul 09
You are a guy, your best friends are certainly boys, a pure friendship between a man and a women is pretty rare. I'm a girl, my best friends are girls, they are not as you said have friendship for their selfish purpose.
@melycota (87)
• United States
31 Jul 09
Both of you ditch the dude. There's 3 million of them out there. Build a sisterhood, and that will last for a lifetime. A sisterhood is beyond a friendship, because you can concentrate on your life and see your friend every so often, sometimes even years can go by, and your friend can come into the picture like nothing. Sisterhoods are stronger.
@steelkhan (177)
• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates
30 Jul 09
my answer is "all is fair in love and war". i have seen many best friends come and go in my life and what if the girl of my dreams leaves my in a month or two so i dont care about friendship in these matters, these things or you can call them "choices in life" are just for experience and will make you stronger or weaker in your real life. i believe only in me and will only guaranty only those things that i am taking part in if someone else is with me in the matter i never guaranty it.
@Elaine77 (315)
• China
31 Jul 09
hi there, If my best friend and I fall in love with the same guy, the choice is on the guy. If he choose her, I'll understand, if he pick me, I think she will understand, since that's what friends really are. Good day!
@devmitra (274)
• India
30 Jul 09
Hi buddy.The situation is so complex,yet I feel that there is a key to it.If my bestfriend likes the same guy,I love,then I would first try to understand whom the guy loves and with whom he is happy.If its her,then I have nothing to lose,and if its me,I will have to talk with my friend about it.If she is my best friend,she will,I believe understand the whole situation and do what I ask her to do.I do understand,that there will be a lot of pain involved,but at the end love needs to live with love.Happy Mylotting.