Could you forgive infidelity?

I dont think it makes you weak, i think it makes you strong! To forgive someone who has done that would take a lot! And especially to put your kids first, that is a really great thing! Obviously it would depend on the situation though, like you say. For me, the big thing would be whether he told me and whether he was 100% Honest about it. I might not like to hear it, and i would be mad at him but in the long run, i would be more willing to forgive. However, if i found out by myself, someone else told me or he said "It was just a one off" or "it was just a kiss" or something then i found out it was much more than that and had been going on for a long time - I would leave him for that! For me now, because of my life experiences - They MIGHT get a second chance but no more than that! If they screw up once, but are honest about it and are truely sorry i would forgive. But if they screw up again then how can I trust them again after that? Without trust you dont have anything in a relationship. I think that is the key to this question, if you can still trust them and love them then you should carry on. But if theyve done something so bad that you cant trust them and dont love them then whats the point in it?