Do You keep in touch with loved ones in a "mass" way?

I believe that people have feelings,the world is so big that can not meet,but can communicate with each other I think that is a fate. I think I can here and you have been very happy to exchange.

hmm.. frankly, I've seen some guys you described whose live in the virtual net world instead of facing the reality, in my opinion, that's the bahavior of immature.

Hi aleg! I think the fellow mentioned in your discussion must be a very passionate and emotional person, as he keep searching for another of his friend on mylot. For him the virtual world would have become more important than the real world. He might be finding some peace and solace in the virtual world and may be feeling at ease by making daily 'confessions'. I think it is upto the individual, how he wants to express himself. I hope that his message goes across to his mylot friend and she takes some pity on him..........LOL! I for one, would never want to make such kind of confession publicly and would not write daily mails/dairy for a particular person. I think, if any of the friend is very dear to me, I would use other channels to communicate with her/him. Have a nice day! Deepak

It s; hard but possible to keep it out of MyLot,, no matter how much attraction, u have for one another,, private business is private,,

actually, it depends... whatever issues/discussions that most people post here in mylot gives me the idea to what kind of person they really are... i based it on how they react or they give comments/feedback... it seems that the guy that you're talking about is so madly in love with the girl but he couldn't express his feelings for the girl because of the fear of rejection or maybe the girl has no interest for him... that's why in order for him lessen the pain or to ease his hidden emotions, he simply post all his sentiments for that girl here in mylot...

I don't have anyone very close to me.I suppose that its very difficult to find who is really speaking his heart out right here and who's here to earn money and only be popular..

Well, from what you're saying, i'm assuming that she is also on mylot, and he is naming her. But if not, then people come here to talk about how they feel 9 times out of 10, or to ask for advice etc. As for people 'virtually' falling in love - well, i've been in 3 reationships in my life so far, my first, which lasted a year and 3 months, i actually met him online, we got speaking, liked each other, decided to meet. My second relationship, i met from college, i dated him a mere month and a half before i split up with him, and this 3rd relationship, i've been in for around 2 months, and its going rather steady, i also met him online, got talking, met him in reality etc. So... people CAN 'fall in love' or 'have feelings' for people over the internet, even if its just a strong affection. If hes publicly bringing her into the light though, and she doesn't feel the same, then he should probably just back off and leave her alone in all honesty. No one should feel pressured to leave this site because of another person. Though she could just be having issues in reality, and maybe hasn't been pressured to leave here. To be honest the certain answer of things comes with every little detail of what happens.

Awwww that sounds so sad Must be so hard when someone you really love just isnt at all interested. I think he should try and move on, find someone who does love him. I think there is probably nothing wrong with making your feeling clear for someone on Mylot, although to keep doing so several times is probably no neccessary, it might be upsetting her! Although it is kind of sweet! But i can see how she might feel too. People can live incredibly lonely live,like you say, that thought makes me so sad. If i was in their shoes i cant imagine how i would feel. Id long for someone to be with, someone to give me a hug or just listen to me. If i didnt have my family and friends around me i would probably go crazy. I would imagine this guy is feeling something similar! Just so lonely, and wanting someone to share things with. But Mylot (when you dont actually know the person) Is the wrong place to do that. Words are fine, and they can mean so much and by the way someone talks you can tell so much about them. But if you were in a relationship with someone, there would reach a point where words just arnt enough. You long to be with them and spend time with them in person. I think it is much better to find someone who is closer to you, who you can actually meet. I hope this person manages to find someone decent and loving, so he isnt quite so lonely! If you see any more of his messages tell him I wish him the best in life, and hope she replies to him soon =/ Sometimes even if a person replies saying "Im not interested" At least that is some closure for him - He will know, and can move on. To just not answer, I think, Is quite cruel. But it depends on the situation i guess! Hope you have a nice day!!