Is possible to love and hate somebody in same time?

No, we can't have mixed feeling like this. If we do, it will make us in a difficult situation.. for me, I either love someone, or I just couldn't be bothered. I won't hate someone, as I find that is something very difficult on my part. Hating someone means carrying the gauges for life.. nope, I won't want to drag the person that I no longer love into my life..

I think if you really love someone then momentarily your anger shows up in th form of hatred although it isn't really so and if though you try to convince yourself otherwise, some emotional values bond you both very strongly together and upon remembering them anger almost always disappears. Love is yet another form of hatred, too many expectations, less time with one another, ego issues all dominate LOVE and Hate..I guess thats why they say...All's fair in Love and War.

Hi, Ice! Isn't that a situation we call family?

I would say that loving a person is possible, but hating him/her at the same instant is not possible. One can say that you may dislike his/her actions but you can't outright hate someone who you love. It might sound like anger but you seldom get angry at strangers, but at people who you love and care for. So, I think hate is an extreme word and angry would be a better word.

That is really true. Sometimes, people just so strange with their feelings. They hate someone so much, at the same time, they also fall in love with that person. I don't know why, and I have no way to explain it. It just how people are. It is hard to tell the feeling of a person, especially a woman.

yes you can love someone and hate their actions or you can love someone and not like them or the way they are and the things they might do. Their attitude and personality may not be appealing to you but you can still love them. I call that loving from afar.

I think that you can love someone, but hate things that they do. I do not think you can really love and hate someone at the same time though.

Hate and love are both very very strong feelings. And I believe that hate can stem from diffrent things... like you say can you hate and love at the same time, I believe you can. I love my boyfriend. We have been together for a little over 2 years- and there have been quite a few times that he has done something to really hurt me emotionally. It has caused me to have what I call our "love/hate relationship." For the most part it's love I feel for him... however there are times that I get so angry- stemming from my feelings of hurt- that I hate him. Our feelings are strange- and it's hard to weed through them sometimes... but if you don't run on your emotions and sit back and think you can usually figure some of it out :) Hope it helps.