Your Idea on Live in relationship and Marriage
By andresimp
@andresimp (818)
India
July 30, 2009 1:25pm CST
when i was doing my college, many girls come from different parts of the country, and some of my friends choose to stay with their boy friends. some are too serious in their relationships and some do not, immediately after the break up, they move on with their life. i had my neighbor living together. they both had major hopes for marriage, she was crazy about him, in the end she found out that he had an affair with another women. He ditched him, she got into major depression, however she was able to overcome after some days. how does live in relationship work? do you think that it is good, so that you get to know about your partner before marriage? Do we have to take live in relationship serious? i m never going for live in relationship. however i want to know what is the idea behind this live in relationship.
thanks for the response.. happy mylotting!
2 responses
@kezabelle (2974)
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30 Jul 09
I am in a live in relationship, we have been together 7 and half years and we are very happy, we also have two beautiful girls aged 5 and 3 years.
For us the relationship works in a normal healthy way we love one another respect one another and treat each other well I would never cheat on him.
Some look down on us living in "sin" as they would describe it but I think that is there problem to deal with NOT mine and my partners as id say our relationship is a lot more healthy than many marriages I know and we are very happy for me that is what is important.
@andresimp (818)
• India
30 Jul 09
wow, that is great.. it is not possible in my country. Even if the girl becomes pregnant before marriage, they would abort the baby if not they have to get married. i m so scared of marriage and life after it. so you are lucky, that you live together without any problems. this wont work for everyone, what would you advise others who have children and some problems with live in relationship?
@kezabelle (2974)
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30 Jul 09
the same as i would advise a married couple with children, try to work through your problems because often that can be done but if not and it is simply making everyone unhappy then go your seperate ways it is more than possible to be great parents even if you are no longer in love or live together anymore. Infact surely two happy but divorced/seperated parents are healthier for a child than two married/living together but down right miserable parents!
@andresimp (818)
• India
31 Jul 09
absolutely right, married miserable parents can be no good to their children. thaks you so much for your response here. good luck. convey my hugs to your kids.:) happy mylotting!
@meapas (2436)
• India
31 Jul 09
It all depends on the maturity level of the persons concerned. People often forget the difference between love and lust and this is where one faulters and repent for life.
@andresimp (818)
• India
31 Jul 09
yes, very true, most of them use the word love for lust. it is often misused. and i hate that. thanks for your response and happy mylotting!
