The real reason men cheat on their loved ones
By ksquires2005
@ksquires2005 (58)
United States
July 30, 2009 3:42pm CST
What is the real reason that men cheat? I really want to know. Is it because we don't put out enough, you're tired of the same thing day after day? or is there something else. I'm sure all women want to know this answer. We'd rather please you, the men, then to find out that you're cheating, and be hurt and cry and have all those emotions. Deep down most women want to get revenge on the man that has cheated on her, by either getting physical, breakingn windows, starting fights with you, having someone else start fights with you, sleep with another man(most of the time it's the best friend or the brother of the guy that cheated in the first place). But then there are others that are sneaky and the woman doesn't find out till she's got an STD and wonders WTF you are doing when you say you are going out with the guys, or going to walmart, or some bs lame excuse. So please, tell me why do men really cheat on good women
5 responses
@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
30 Jul 09
Because all the blood rushes from their brain...to their p*nis. They are left with no way to think the situation through. LUST...plain and simple. They LUST rather than LOVE.
@anoop_ultimates (69)
• India
31 Jul 09
hey thats unfair...u cant generalise like that.In fact we know through where the blood rushes out,dont we,so please mind your language.Also can i know your reason why women cheat on men?pls dont say that women dont cheat
@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
31 Jul 09
I'm sorry if I offended you. I did not set out to do so. I used the MEDICAL term instead of the slang term for the male's anatomy thinking it would be less offensive. Perhaps you should not post discussion about so sensitive a subject if you're not prepared to hear such words.
Women cheat because they are not getting the emotional needs met by their partner. Men cheat because they are not getting their needs met by their partner as well.
PEOPLE cheat because they believe they will get their needs met elsewhere. Cheating is a selfish behavior, the cheator has no thought for what their actions will do to their partner. They are only concerned with getting their needs met.
@windymyre (210)
• United States
31 Jul 09
I hope a lot of men respond to this discussion because I am curious to see what they have to say!
@foreigntradecareer (166)
• China
31 Jul 09
Well, it is a good topic to discuss. For me, I seldom cheat on my loved girl, but mean a while I did like that.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
1 Aug 09
There are too many reason why.. First the other girl might be too attracted that a man can't resist.. 2nd, The gf might be over demanding to the point that the guy become exhausted... and lastly, the GF might overlook her beauty that she already forgot to look after her figure or go to the saloon for the latest haircut or even dont bother to change her dress style and she just using the same line of dress since they know each other which already become boring.. men always want surprises... they want to be excite... try to give him your new look that will always surprise him. also try to change your perfume that will get his attention. and dont forget your very loving and sweet hug and kiss that tickles him.
