Have you ever complained about your Family Background?
@sunshineyunlong (271)
China
July 31, 2009 8:44am CST
Every now and then I would hear people around me complaining about their family background when they encounter with life diffculties. They say that if they had born in a richer family,or their family are powerful etc,their life will be much more easier and they will be more successful.I really feel a bit annoyed about people saying that.
So what do you think about that?Have this situation happened around you before?
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@sarafii74 (106)
• Australia
2 Aug 09
hi, sunshineboy. There are two things you can not choose yourself, your parents and your children. Tell the people complain about this, if you have right to complain about your family background, your parents would also complain about that why they didn't born a smarter kid.
Yes, maybe born in a rich family will make life easier. But I prefer being born in a warm, harmonious and open-minded family. Some kids born in rich family seem not that happy as you thought. So, I never complain about my family, I just sometimes will angry with my parents a litte bit when I was a child. Have a nice day!
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@sarafii74 (106)
• Australia
4 Aug 09
yeah...I agree with you. No one will like our parents love us that much. Unless we find someone we love and also love us, who can company with us for whole life.
Have a nice day!
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@sunshineyunlong (271)
• China
2 Aug 09
Thank you,sarafii74.Yes,we may have some trouble with mum or dad sometimes,but we should appreciate our parents who give birth to us and nurture us since we are babies. So,we both love our family.
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@sunita64 (6469)
• India
31 Jul 09
I have never done that in fact I am very proud of my family and because of their love I have reached where I am. It is really pathetic to listen to people who complain about their families, actually these are negative people who can never improve.
@sunshineyunlong (271)
• China
31 Jul 09
I totally agree with you.I love my family and I love my parents.No matter what happen,my love of my own family will not change.
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@doggyhouz (548)
• United States
4 Aug 09
I am proud of where I am from and also who raised me the way I am today. I am never ashamed about how I was raised or what background I am from. Superstars can have kids that are complete opposites or the same. We come from our choice we make and if your unable to make choice of your own it is a misfortune. It is a great feeling to know you can make your own choice especially when you have made the right ones. Wrong choice is a lesson to learn but to say your background is what go your here is not true. If you had help is different and I don't see it as a wrong thing.
Rich people are rich because of how they stayed rich not because they trick the world that they were rich and they have to stay rich. One bad move from a family that was born into wealth can lose it all. Eron is a great example. A giant a rich company went down.
People may also gain money but can never increase it also. Inheriet money is also an issue then.
Never be afraid from where you came from!
@exceld3ick (109)
• Nigeria
31 Jul 09
I do complain about my family background whenever my dad fail to play his fatherly role to me.