how do you maintenance your friends relationship ?
By BLOODTYPEO
@BLOODTYPEO (111)
China
July 31, 2009 10:34am CST
I alway have a question about "how to maintenance with my friends relationship", after i graduated from college, there are merely time for me to meet my friends , and i have a lot of friends , and how to seperate the time for them .The phone call and msm is my ways to contact them , but day by day, i think it's hard to keep in touch with them , the distance and timing are the problem. Crazy work for me ,it's hard to have a rest.
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@BLOODTYPEO (111)
• China
4 Aug 09
Hi, SarojInc, see you again! yes, your suggestion is good! To be frankly, i think i were "lazy enough" , because i d'like to go playing basketball than meet my friend often , i play basketball one time per week, i work six days a week and one day off , if i going to meet my friend ,i have no time to play basketball. maybe you will think i am not sincerely meet my friends or consider friendship sincerely. i love my friends , they are lovely persons in my world , there will not have fun without them . sometime i just dont know how to assign my timing.
@BLOODTYPEO (111)
• China
4 Aug 09
yes, i admit i am not good enought on this term , and i really want to have some "change", maybe i am not good at set a timeing list . if you have some good suggestion , i am appreciate it! thanks!
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
3 Aug 09
Dear BloodTypeO,
Yes, this questions also boggling me last time...
Last time no internet, no e-mail, no blogging, no chat,
no Facebook, no handphones...
The only way to keep in touch last time is via telephone
calls and letters (slow snail mails...lol), meet once a
year during reunion gathering or Chines New Year!
NOW, you can always keep in touch with them via emails,
Facebook, chat...a short notes to all of them..once in
awhile will really helps..send e-cards on festivals or
any occasions..once a month go outing together (those close
friends...) I believe you can managed your time well. You
need to catch-up with your friends to have some fun and to
relax..
Weekdays : Focus on Working
Weekends : Go out with friends and family
go for some movies or drinks....introduced them with myLotting..
then you all can share views, opinions and fun here at myLot!
Thanks and do keep in touch!
Last time no internet, no e-mail, no blogging, no chat,
no Facebook, no handphones...
The only way to keep in touch last time is via telephone
calls and letters (slow snail mails...lol), meet once a
year during reunion gathering or Chines New Year!
NOW, you can always keep in touch with them via emails,
Facebook, chat...a short notes to all of them..once in
awhile will really helps..send e-cards on festivals or
any occasions..once a month go outing together (those close
friends...) I believe you can managed your time well. You
need to catch-up with your friends to have some fun and to
relax..
Weekdays : Focus on Working
Weekends : Go out with friends and family
go for some movies or drinks....introduced them with myLotting..
then you all can share views, opinions and fun here at myLot!
Thanks and do keep in touch!@BLOODTYPEO (111)
• China
4 Aug 09
Hi,Iriene, your comment is awesome! And you give me a big suppot, thanks! i think you are good at manage your time, like " weekdays: working hardly and weekends: enjoy the day with friend! " i really want to make a such list. but i have the other problem , i am basketball fans ,and i will play basketball every week when the weekend day! but most of my friend dont like play basketball,this is my question.
