what if you find your boyfriend or girlfriend fall in love with another one?

I would feel very happy because my girlfriend is a human being and she has every right to fall in love with as many people as she wants. If I feel angry with her because she fell in love with another, then it only means that I am immature and it would be wise on her part not to love a person who is immature. Love is free. It cannot be possessed. Possessiveness has ebcome a poison and is destroying the heart and soul of man.

I think if my partner fell in love with some one else, there is no saving that relationship really. I now understand the saying, "if you love them, let them go". If you loved them you would want them to be happy, no matter what. And if staying with you when they didnt love them made them unhappy then you would end the relationship no matter how painful it would be. Also you would naturally be very hurt and angry and probably break up with them anyway. But once id calmed down i think i would like to slowely build back up some kind of relationship with them. But one little step at a time. In some situations i think people can never have a good relationship with someone who has broke their heart!