how do you initiate break up?

i just speak out what i really feel... i tell them that i want to end up our relationship and the reason why i made the decision... well... sounds easy but i guess i'd rather witness them weep because i broke up with them that to see them so happy expecting that i'm still in love with them...

For own opinion, it is not right if you just disappear when you don't love your bf/gf anymore. Yeah, it is true that it really hard to say to someone that you don't love him/her anymore. You'll need the right timing and it is better to say it before he/she knew it from someone close to both of you. You're just being honest to your true feelings and you don't want to hurt him/her more if you continue the relationship. Have a nice day.....