I think he is a real loser....wat do u think??
By keep_onwatch
@keep_onwatch (2680)
India
August 1, 2009 8:47am CST
I know this lady as my mom's colleague and she looks very pretty. She used to talk always just about one thing and that's her husband. She even confessed she loved him more than her kids. She used to tell that in these 16 years of marriage her husband treated her like a queen, that they never had any fight and the children r a witness for their love. He had her face tattooed on his chest and her name on both his arms. He used to order a special calendar made of just her pics on them. Every1 thought they were a perfect couple. Then one day he got an amazing job offer abroad. Both of them were very excited. He told her that he go der settle down and in about 6 months he will get her and the kids there. He left and for a few days they were in constant contact. Slowly he stopped calling. All of a sudden she was mailed divorce papers. She was shocked and called him up at once to find out wats wrong. He told him that he is in love with another gurl and he no longer loves her nor needs her and the kids in his life! She was crushed, absolutely. She says that she will not sign the papers and that he will come bk to her and the kids one day! I really feel so sorry 4 her. Infact he is a loser that he lost some1 who loves him so much and such wonderful kids. But i still dont get how can can still expect him to come bk, and how she could accept him again after what he had done to her?!
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9 responses
@nuar_y (279)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 09
For me this is normal. When 2 married person separated, because of work or anything, something wrong might comes up. In this case, that guy is totally a stupid, ungrateful man that didn't realize that he had almost perfect family.
Maybe he's looking from the outer, well, I mean, maybe that girl he met is much more prettier than his wife. But, how long can that pretty face lasts? Sooner or later, that girl will get old too. If I was that man, I'd never ever find another woman in my life, because I had one perfect lady, that willing to be on my side forever....
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
3 Aug 09
Yeah he is total stupid indeed...but worse than being stupid is being a betrayer..
@studentabe (109)
• Belgium
2 Aug 09
Sometimes even a couple has get along for many years, they don't know what other's is thinking about at all. Because some people have "several faces" and you might never judge it from the outer.
Instead, I think she is a loser because she has never known the "true"him in their marriage.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
2 Aug 09
Well i think she has lost a lot...she lost the one she thought she loved...she lost a family..she lost trust in another human, she lost the hope of ever having a happy life again...she lost...but he is definitely the loser...loser of his family
@studentabe (109)
• Belgium
2 Aug 09
However, loser means who fail to acheive their aim. Although the man might be mean, but it just what he wants to do.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
1 Aug 09
Hi there!
The story appears really shocking to me and what that man did was beyond expectations and I also feel that his wife should not sign the divorce papers, he has no right to cheat his wife like this. He should be sent a legal notice from his wife for not caring about her.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
2 Aug 09
May b ...but no signing the papers can mean that she is still interested in him, which she is...Well, fighting wid ppl like this will leave us with nothing but more pain and exhaustion. I think he exhausted her enough and now she just needs to rid him off...
@AliciaLiu (61)
• China
2 Aug 09
i was shocked after read this story..and He's more than a loser...how could he do these to her? Such kind of man shouldn't have lived on earh.If i were her i won't want him back.Even if he comes back and down his knees,begging me to accept him i'll never forgive him!
Don't acting like a fool,go get another one who truely loves you!!!
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
3 Aug 09
Yeah, i would have done teh same thing as you...i would ne4ver forgive some1 like that ..thats too creepy to even think of starting over again with some1 who betrayed me.....
@ChrysanTflower (1607)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 09
What?! What a terrible thing that happened to her family.. I'm not sure it's the real her husband.. How if someone else pretend to be him and send that divorce papers? How if he's in such a dangerous situation that not allowed him to contact his wife and give honest information? So many possibilities. After having 16 years old married and have some kids, I think it must be very hard to receive such a news and sign the papers without having good explanation from her husband. If I were her, I will go to meet him and ask for explanation. It's 16 years old! And they already have kids! It sounds crazy for me, leave his wife and kids only because of new girl. It sounds impossible! Must be a good explanation for this.. and that lady said her husband love her very much before went abroad..
I hope that lady will find a way.. hope God Bless Her..
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
2 Aug 09
Well, im pretty sure she is positive its him... coz she isnt the kind of woman who isnt giving up on her cheating husband, and she has to be confident enough that its him...and she is so very sure..
@tweety007121 (57)
• India
2 Aug 09
I am shocked, to say the least. How could he have changed his mind after being in love for 16 years is beyond my imagination. May be it's a case of out of sight, out of mind, but a horrible case even at that.
P.S. :- I would love to see her "new-found love" bickering over his permanent tattoos in no time.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
3 Aug 09
Yeah i donno how ppl can change so soon, infact forget the one who lived wid them for so long!
@Denmarkguy (1845)
• United States
1 Aug 09
That's a very strange and sad story. Makes me wonder if they met each other very young, and were each other's ONLY boyfriend/girlfriend... and the "lure" of never having been with anyone else became too much for him? People do such strange stuff-- it sounds like they really cared about each other, though.
As for her waiting for him to come back? I don't know what she hopes will happen... the "damage" has already been DONE there, and nothing could go back to "being the same," after he's done this... that sounds just like "wishful thinking." Choices have consequences... after what he's done, it's not just going to be cancelled, because he suddenly thinks "ooops, I changed my mind."
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
2 Aug 09
Yeah! i knw ppl like that never change and even if they do , i dont think they deserve a second chance!
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
2 Aug 09
I've seen relationships like that. A person is over heals in love with a person if that person is around giving them all the attention. When there is a separation because of school or job, they feel they need that constant need for attention so look else where.
Yeah he's a loser and really, he's still a little boy. One thing here, her name is all over him - her face tattooed on his chest, he's going to have to remember what he lost every single day of his life!
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
2 Aug 09
Yeah he definitely is....i really like the way u put it across......
@x_Jo_x (1040)
•
1 Aug 09
Oh dear thats so horrible! He is a loser and she deserves so much better than him! I think she shouldnt take him back anyway! Its likely this girl wont be the "Love of his life" he thought she was, and come running back saying "Ive made a huge mistake" And she should just say yeah you have and slam the door in his face! I think she should sign the papers. She might still love him, but he did a really horrible thing!
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
2 Aug 09
Yeah i think so too...i wish she would just do that even if he came bk...bt i doubt that he will come...
