Would you know it if it's the right person for you?
By katheen
@katheen (124)
Philippines
August 1, 2009 11:40am CST
I got pregnant when I was just 22 and got married 23 years old. Some say that I'm too young to get married, but I say that it's not true. Like every relationships there will come a time, that the magic, some call it spark will disappear, that's what happened to us. Christmas eve we broke up, and then got back on the third day. I call that " the 3 days of death", why? because everywhere I look I see his face, everything I touch I feel him, when I close my eyes I still see him, there's not a minute that I don't think of him. What I did, I went to the place where he worked to see if things could go back to the way they were and thank God it did. Now we are happily living together with one beautiful kid and one coming.
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@prashanthalva (2272)
• India
2 Aug 09
Yes, When you are In Love .. The Confusion Prevails and I Can Physically Feel What Happened To you .. The Face cropping up Again And Again .. It Keeps Bothering you Until The Matter is Totally Resolved ..
Am happy that you did Get Married to raise those Little One .. s .. God Bless Your Family ..
@katheen (124)
• Philippines
2 Aug 09
That's so true prashanthalva! I couldn't do ordinary things, routines without thinking about him, I always stop and cry. I can still feel the pain you know, and when we talk about it at night I still cry. I'm happy with my decision, in fact I'm the luckiest girl, because my husband is the most responsible and loving husband in the world plus my kids. Thanks for the overwhelming comment. God Bless you and your family. Happy myloting. :)
@prashanthalva (2272)
• India
3 Aug 09
I Have tears in My Eyes Dear .. Your post is really touching .. Ok .. I Will Come To An Understanding With God .. Let Him Bless Both our Families .. But First Your Family ..Best of Luck .. See You Around ..
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
4 Aug 09
Well, what I have learned over the yrs, is when you know you really know. God makes no mistakes when he chooses a mate for someone. All you have to do is look in their eyes and see the glow and you know. Nothing or no one can change it, and so you are only 23. It is between you and the guy you are in Love with to know what is best. If you really want to make it last and feel this is right allow God to help you, and be able to talk about things together and not worry about what others feel or think. It is you who needs to be Happy and if this is what does it, then continue on for many more yrs. to come. Wishing you the Best.
@katheen (124)
• Philippines
4 Aug 09
HI KrauseHome! You're right, when you know you really know. God is the only one who can help us if we want something to work, only GOD. Everyday I pray for this relationship to work, because I do not see myself in another man's arms. Thanks for your heartwarming response. Have a blessed life. Happy myloting! :)
@babyfiona08 (652)
• Philippines
3 Aug 09
That was a heart warming story but I'm glad you had a happy ending. You really love the man of your life.
What you experienced is really painful considering that you have already a daughter that time. Good thing, you made a way to win him back.
Being married at the age of 23 is ok. I think it's not that young anymore. I'm also planning to be married 2 years from now. Im 20 and after 2 years, I'm just 22. I'm sure people will tell me the same thing too. But, I've decided and I think we are mature enough for a new journey in life.
Anyways, Godbless you more!
@katheen (124)
• Philippines
4 Aug 09
Hey babyfiona08! You're right, It's just a matter of knowing if that person is the right one for you so you could do whatever you can to win that person back. I'm happy that you also found the right man for you, finding one isn't easy nowadays you know. I'm sure they will tell you that, no doubt about it, but just listen to whats in your heart so no regrets for you in the end. God bless to you and your man! Have a good life...
