How do you appreciate those who respond to your post ?
By sarojInc
@sarojInc (570)
India
August 1, 2009 12:56pm CST
Hi all fellow mylotters.Here at mylot we start discussion ,post comments,choose best responses and enjoy every second of it.
Whenever I start a new discussion I follow some common rules .they are
1.always start new discussion on the subject that I enjoy the most,ie my interest.
2.Welcome those who take time to respond to discussion.
3. Rate them positively .
4.take time to read every comment posted at my discussion.
5.make useful comments on the response by fellow mylot friends.
6.send friend request to all those who post meaningful response.
How do you support those who have responded to your discussions?Whats your way to give surprises to your friends at mylot.
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9 responses
@Marciano09 (32)
• Netherlands Antilles
1 Aug 09
The one way I appreciate the feedback from myLotters is by writing back with a message of appreciation. I rate them when I know it's about time to rate them. I don't want to rate them frequently because otherwise they might get used to my ratings and expect me to rate for anything they give a feedback on.
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@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
1 Aug 09
Hi marciano09,
No one knows if you give them + or - rate. And you should give it if you think his/her response or comment is worth it. You will appreciated it once you have your own star beside your username. You can get it once you have your 100th post.
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@Marciano09 (32)
• Netherlands Antilles
2 Aug 09
Ohhhhh now I know. So basically the person to be rated will not be notified by e-mail nor by private message that a myLot member rated them. Thank you for the info ;-)
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@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
1 Aug 09
Hi sarojInc,
I show my respect by giving a comment on every response and/comment back that I received. And I try to give a good comment on each and every one of it. Giving a simple thank you comment is not enough. That is the basic rules for me.
I give a + rated response for all except for one spammer. If he/she just give a very very short response or comment, I would leave it unrated.
I always give a best response to my discussion but when I give it is differ from one to another. Some of it just after a week, some take a month and there is a discussion that I only give after 3 month since I receive only 1 response and almost forgot about it.
I rarely ask for a friendship for those who give a response to my discussion. But I always accept anyone request except one. I think I should be more selective in accepting it since most of my friends didn't have same interest with me. There is no point to have a lot of friends but never give a response to my discussion or vise verse.
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@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 09
There is no meaning to have a lot of friends but didn't have a same interest. In other words, never give a response to our friends discussion. You earn from your response and comment and not how big your friends list.
But the bigger the list the more exposure from your discussion and the higher possibility it being responded.
@p3halliwel2005 (3156)
• Philippines
2 Aug 09
I do actually rate everyone positive unless if the person is so rude they get a negative from me. I also thank them even if I take too long to respond. I apologize to them if I take that long. I often say I appreciate what they told me and I honestly do from the bottom of my heart. I am very thankful that someone took time to read and respond to my discussions.
@bkneerajrk (773)
• India
2 Aug 09
For many days on mylot I had not noticed the rating thing on the right side. I would just mark the best response. But recently I have started to mark the responses as positive. I never mark them as negative but if someone is really making fun of the discussion I just send that person a one-liner of thank you. If the responder has given some good response I reply with the same vigor. I have started sending friend's request recently.
@payout (3794)
• United States
1 Aug 09
Hello sarojInc,
I very grateful and love when people comment and leave responses to my discussions. I rate all of the a plus because they responded to my discussion and base on how many responses I get well tell how fast i will give someone the best response. The more responses I get the longer it will take me to decided who will be the best responses person.
Also I read each response and leave a comment my own opinion because i think it's good to know that the person you post a response to on there discussion really read your response and decided to leave a comment with there own opinion.
I usually don't post a discussions like that and do it like once every two days maybe. Because I'm busy most of the time leaving comments and responding to other discussions I find interesting as well.
Another thing is that I friend request as much people as I can because I like making new friend here on mylot and I think it's pretty cool how they will see my discussions because I post a new one because I'm there friend on here.
In the end I appreciate everything on mylot from the discussions I get to the opinions, laughter, and the advice from others that make my day a little better Woo I love it here on mylot haha..
Just let me say thank you to all my mylot friends and people that post responses to my discussions.. Because with out on mylot the discussions will be empty and there wont be any discussions really thank you so much and keep on posting haha..take care
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@puddytat101 (657)
• United States
2 Aug 09
I try to read every post, but when there are 10 pages, I tend to skip the one-liners. I wait about a week or so before I choose a best response. Sometimes, I will wait longer if there aren't many responses.
@sunshineyunlong (271)
• China
2 Aug 09
Usually I will rate people who have responded to my discussion positively.Besides,I will visit their profile and see what discussions they have started.If I find some topics which I am interested in,then I'd make responses.Also I try to add them as my friends,especially those are warm-hearted and always ready to help others.
@phillip_shiny (2330)
• India
2 Aug 09
I throughly check for any discussion before I start a new. Next I'll read every comment and respond to them with some greetings. I rate every comment from every user. I also select the best response from my interest. Really a nice discussion indeed. Cheers. Have a nice day.