help me..my friendship is in trouble..

You're friend is really blinded by what happened to him. He is actually in the stage of anger. We studied about 5 phases of grieving that people usually experience when they met unnecessary circumstances. First one is denial followed by anger then bargaining, depression and acceptance. I think your friend got stuck with the anger phase. Right here, i think you should express his anger out but NOT in this way. I bet it will be much better if the girl who dumped him would talk to him to explain what she really feels. Maybe your friend did not accept what the girl said so he's trying to ruin the girls life. We have a television show here with a title called "Only you". Trixie, was a nice girl but after being dumped by TJ, she immediately turned to a devil. So her friend, Jonathan brought her in a retreat. It was very effective. Leaving your friend won't be necessary no matter how hurtful the words he said towards you. A famous saying goes like these "A friend who pushes you away would be someone who really needs your help". Oh yeah, it's not really exactly like it, but hey! it conveys the same meaning.

It is sad that your friend got hurt, but he is not really your friend if he wants you to go against what you feel is right and to hurt someone else. If he was drunk at the time he said it, then it might just be his pain talking and he might not really mean it - he might just be "blowing off steam". If he says it more than once, though, then your friend needs help, especially if he wants to physically harm this girl.

the problem is he's really shattered by what has happened to him..so he's saying such things to you...but if he really cares for you as much as you care for him..he'd come back to you. Anyways what I'm saying is that if she has rejected him then he's gotta forget her..nothing else...cos if she doesn't care about him then what's the point to give damage to self..in the memory of a person who doesnt give a damn .That's not called love...it's obsession.

Hey shravandone! I think your friend needs counseling. I know it's so devastating for your friend but he gotta accept the fact that sometimes in LOVE you lost. Love is also a game that you need to play. If you think you did all you have to do to help him, and still he feels that way then I don't think he needs any of those help anymore. Give him time to breath and think about his life. Give him time to heal. Don't force healing, let time heal him. Just pray for him. I'm pretty sure God is with him. And don't support his evil thoughts or doings against this girl, because you're gonna be answering to God when the time comes. At least your clean. :)

Friendship day is for friends, and not for someone who says that he don't damn care about you.. he is the loser. He cannot handle relationship well in life,. if the girl doesn't like him, why should he take revenge. there is a point in taking revenge if the girl betrayed him.. she honestly told him that she is not interested. so this guy is insane. i m sorry to say that. you should call up his parents and say this and tell them to take him to a psychiatrist. what is he really hurts the girl. He is trying to bring you to trash, asking for your support... i would say leave his friendship.. if you like to help him, take him to a doctor. good luck

If he really loves his girlfriend, he won't have the idea to trouble her. Real love is not hurting. If he really cherishes friendship between you two, he won't hurt you easily. Maybe he's too depressed. You can give him some time and let him calm down.

hello shravandone, I think he needs you now more than before. he said such words to you because he is in pain. Talk to him again and let him understand that what he is palnning is not right. He's just confused before. Never leave him, soon he'll realize that what he said to you or done was wrong. If you really his friend, you'll not give him up. Your support, understanding, love and presence is what he needs now.

A real friend will always give you the truth even when it hurts! A real friend hangs in there when the road gets rough! A real friend will go through hell to point you in the right direction.If you are to be a real friend, BE A ROCK! Something to hang onto in the storm. People in storms may not be looking for something to hang onto but often grap the closest thing. BE THERE!

No you shouldn't support his evil if you are really his good friend. You should persude him to be as nice as before . It's too horrible to change into such a person when he lost his love . He isn't in normal situation now . Please do help him to get over this girl . Move on.

hi, friend ship day is for friends. and this day is not for who says dont care about u. he is not maintain good relation ship. if the girls dont like him,why should he take revenge.there is a point in taking revenge if the girl betrayted him..She honestly told him that she is not interested. So this guy is insane. I am sorry to say that. you should call up his parents and say this and tell them to take him to a psychiatrist. what is he really hurts the girl.He is trying to bring you to trash,asking for your support... i would say leave his friendship.. if you like to help him,take him to doctor.good luck

hi, friend ship day is for friends. and this day is not for who says dont care about u. he is not maintain good relation ship. if the girls dont like him,why should he take revenge.there is a point in taking revenge if the girl betrayted him..She honestly told him that she is not interested. So this guy is insane. I am sorry to say that. you should call up his parents and say this and tell them to take him to a psychiatrist. what is he really hurts the girl.He is trying to bring you to trash,asking for your support... i would say leave his friendship.. if you like to help him,take him to doctor.good luck

Just give him his space for a while, see if he calms down and realises what he's doing. He needs to come back to reality and just talk to her - not accepting a proposal doesn't mean their relationship is over, it just means she's not ready to settle down yet. She probably just needs more time. However, if his pain has caused him to want to make her feel pain... then I can't see how he could actually claim to love her that much. Girls aren't stupid, sometimes we can see something in a man and eventhough we can't quite explain what it is we know we shouldn't be with them. I was in an abusive relationship once... and I always saw something in him that made me nervous... but I stayed by him for as long as I could, because I did love him. But sometimes you just have to let someone go.

I would definitely kiss this friendship good-bye...By giving ur opinion, u r not breaking ur friendship, therefore he had no reason to say that he doesn't care for you...