How important virgin is for you?
By fchalida
@fchalida (196)
Indonesia
August 3, 2009 10:07am CST
how important virginity is for you? how do you keep your virgin until merriage? for me that's very important, i do keep virgin until merriage, that because if i am pragnant before merriage i am affraid my boyfriend run away from me. and that make my family hold shame.
3 responses
@pengbubu (1011)
• China
3 Aug 09
I don't know, it's really a controversial topic, I think. I am a man, Chinese. In old days of China, the virginity is very important, even more important than her life. Now the attitude toward this is different. Believe in me, husband are always care about virginity even if they didn't show you. I am a man I know that feeling. 
@x_Jo_x (1040)
•
3 Aug 09
I am no longer a Virgin. I wish in many ways that i was though, but would change anything if i could! Its not so important to me that i would want to wait until marriage. I think if i ended up pregnant and my bf ran away there is prople that can help, and while my parents might be dissapointed in me, im pretty sure they would be supportive to me and would love their grandchild anyway! I would hope that would be the case anyway. I guess we all make desicions in life and all have to accept the consequences of those actions. I think you are very sensible to wait until you get married! Good luck! Have a nice day!
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
3 Aug 09
ok i'm not a virgin, and i've got one son. it all falls back to religion and culture on how important it is to keep your virginity until you marry. maybe if things were like the old days there wouldn't be so many teen preganices now, (i'm talking back before 1900)
if your b.f. ran away if you fell preganant before you married he's not worth having around to start with.
