Are you jealous with your partner's ex-girlfriend/boyfriend?

yes, i'm still jealous or you can say insecure also, her ex is much sexier than me hahaha

Well, I do. Sometimes I do feel that way. I think that there is nothing bad about it. We always act like that because we are in love deeply with our partners.

Personally, I think my boyfriends ex girlfriend is a huge loser. I think I lucked out a bit becuase she was so over the top and demanding. She wouldnt let him do anyhing and she was always mad at him for some reason so he broke thigs off. Becuase she was so over the top and demanding, it makes me look good to matttter what. I let him chill with friends andhe thinks im the coolest girlfriend ever even though Im not really doing anyhting all that good is jsut becuase hes not used to it. As for other boyfriends I had. Im not really jealous of their exes, most of the time I ended up friends with them. As long as they treat me with a lot of respect, I will do the same.

The only reason that I've ever been jealous of my husband's ex-fiancee is that she had him first. Granted, she did end up losing him, but she has a part of him that can never be mine. There is no other reason for me to be jealous of her because she isn't a part of his life in a physical sense anymore, just in the sense that she crosses his mind.

When my husband and I were first together absolutely there was some jealousy there. I think that is completely normal. Plus my husbands ex was still trying to get back with him when we were first together. I think everyone is jealous sometimes of the other's ex.

Yes, we have the same feeling. As for my case, he has still a crush on his ex, and that's why I'm jealous :(

You have to keep reminding yourself that your partner is with YOU. If he/she wanted to be with the ex, that person would not be an ex.

hi simone! i don't know if its jealousy but all i know is that i don't want to hear anything about those girls... i don't like seeing them talking to my husband or even just hearing their names can turn my beautiful day into bad one! hahaha...but that was before...when we are not yet married. but now, well i still don't like them...heheh for they also don't like me!

If we love our partners of course we can't help to be jealous on this matter. I also get jealous when they are communicating. I don't like to hide my emotions because I don't feel good if I just keep it to myself, I immediately tell him or show actions that he can tell I'm not ok. I think I'm not insecure of his ex-girlfriend when I get jealous it's just that I'm just curious on what they were communicating about. I'm suspecting of cheating a bit. I actually listens when she calls, I actually saw when they chat. But I come to think about what if I'm not actually here to know if they were communicating. All I do is to trust in him and have faith on his love on me.

i really get easily jealous its my first love i dont have any ex yet and had no plan to have one, hehehehe,,, yeah i really get jealous i was their witness how sweet they are before specially we have any misunderstanding i get more jealous i dont see their defect thats why i really get affected when we have trouble to each other.

Frankly speaking, yes I do get jealous with the exes especially the most recent one. My boyfriend don't want to talk about his ex gf but then I always tease him to say something about her and when he started talking about her, it really makes me feel pissed off! hahaha even if I was the one who forced him to talk about her! I am really angry whenever his ex gf text him or sends him email messages! but he doesn't really know that I become jealous about it.. Until now, he believes that I don't give a damn talking about his exes....too bad:(

I think its more on insecurity that jealousy. First I think its the ex who must feel jealous..lolz. Before he was mine how you have her..lolz.. Just thing that at the end of the day your the one who have the right to take him home..And what the other one can do is just say good bye..lolz

I think not jealous, I just got insecured with my partner's ex-girlfriend because one was a doctor and other one was certified accountant and I am just a student during that time. Aslo I dont have a chance to meet those ex-girlfriend personally but I already talked to them via phone and email which they both want my husband back but my husband refused and said that he is happily married.

Well, i have to say that sometime i have the same feeling like you. But i think it's normal feeling with your partner's ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. But if they were converse, communicating just like a ordinary friends, then its' okay, you don't need to worry about it.

I don't think it's healthy to be jealous.. of anyone. You shouldn't get jealous when they converse or talk or whatever; you should be secure about your own relationship instead of worry about it (unless there's a legitimate need for worrying, but I'm guessing it's all in your head). I think it's a good thing for us (as well as our boyfriends/girlfriends) to be good friends with our/their exes. I am!

Nice question...Yes I do...I really get jealous...Its hard especially when my partner and his ex got a long relationship.

yes. and i'm jealous most of the time. i just can't help it. maybe because i don't have an ex bf while he had too many. it's not fair.

It's Ok if you resolutely believe in your love. I think you should be proud of that coz your partner finally chose you.

Hi siomelee, i will jealous when i hear my gf talking about her ex , i think it's normal for that reaction except you dont like your theother part! for me , i will never talk about my ex to my gf eventhough she ake for me , my gf is easy to be jealous. although people says you should frankly to your gf , but something not, like something about your ex.

Yeah sometime I do. I think it is normal for people to jealous over the one they love for having entirely different life and love in the past. We just wished we are the 1st. I dont think this is merely about insecure. If its too much, jealous might close to being insecure, an issue that must be resolved by the individual him/herself. But if its just superficial feeling of jealously only non human will liberate themselves from it.