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I don't have any experience but I would like to say a few things. The first thing you need to do is finding out what you are good at? Every person is good at something. Whatever it is you must know it. Then you can work around that skill. Learn something new and read self motivating books which are practical. Set small goals and achieve them within the set period. It will build confidence. From small things you can go for bigger things. It takes time, effort but you need to be fully dedicated. Only you can decide what you can do, to be frank there is no limit but we put limits to ourselves! Just take one step at a time and after some time you will surprise yourself with what you do by that time! Regards

Well I did go to college and get a four year degree. But I got it in Education and quickly decided I didn't want to teach. The degree is practically useless and I'm trying to figure out what to do with myself. So my advice is to find something you want to do, and do it. I know, not as simple as it sounds. If you don't want or are able to look at any education options, there are still plenty of fields that are open to you. Administrative, warehouse work, drivers (say, UPS), retail, restaurants, hotels, babysitting, etc. If you are willing to consider education, I would check out both community and technical college. It will give you ideas for what you could do, and those types of schools are generally cheaper and the programs are faster than Universities. It really is a great option - if you can afford the time and money. But you'll never know unless you look. Get a plan together now, before you have the baby. Once you know whether you want to work part time and get some education, or go straight in to the job market, you can then decide how soon after giving birth you want to do those things. Good luck. Trust me, you just gotta do it. Don't talk yourself down and out of what you want/can do.