Friends I've deleted....Please don't get me wrong.....

Hi tdemex, I don't like to offend people either by deleting them but I do, as there are the mass posters out there who bombard with ten topics at a time, none of which are my interests and make me lose the will to Mylot. If these are relatively new users, say under 200 posts but all fired off in a couple of weeks I presume they won't even notice they've been deleted as they seem to have thousands of friends already. I prefer quality friends with similar interests and that's coming right now. The most annoying thing ever though is every time I open the friends page the pending friends come up first and there are three there now which are impossibe to get rid of, the second one hits delete they bounce right back and just won't take no for an answer. They must have it rigged somehow to be back there so quickly, especially as they are the ones with thousands of friends but very little posts. I cringe when I see them on the lists of my friends as at some point they are most likely to be hit by something nasty.

Hello my friend Awww , lol I understand what you mean, from the day I started here i was lucky I connected to some really good people, although I am a newbie I do check out profiles for people that request my friendship, I check their discussions to get an idea where their head is at, I have really good friends thus far, would love to keep it that way. I do have friends that don't respond to my discussions, yet I respond to theirs, how should I handle this? I know the friends that are here and the ones that are not online for some reason or the other. I guess time will tell right, if some people continue to not respond why are they my friends?

Hi there! I have to have a clean out regularly too usually in the first days of the month. Unless there is a specific reason, those users that have had no activity for six months will go from my list as will some of the newer users that I added three or more months ago who never seem to see anything of mine but are happy when I land on theirs. I add many new users as soon as they request and only if they are only here to promote their money sites I refuse them. Then some drop out and don't post and it is a necessity to clean out once in a while. I do it every month because I have so many pages now. If I left it longer it would take a week to get through them all Thanks for keeping me among yours

LOL - Would you believe that after reading this post i actually went to your profile to see if you have deleted me from your friends list I generally add, most of members who respond to my discussion, as my friend. But i do visit their profile to see the kind of posts they respond to so that if i get a hint about any neative activity i don't relly send/accept a friends request. Everyone has the right to choose their friends and i appreciate your concerns in this regard. ANd i'm happy that you have also informed members about you action

started off by pretty much accepting any that had posted something, i don't now, if i'm not interested at all in what they say i don't accept. and i'm slowly having a clear out - mainly of those who seem to have left mylot.

well, you can always turn off the notifications and check their profile instead. but if it's your choice then there's no one to stop you at least. if they post 10 discussion in the same interest it would certainly take more of your time and decrease your possible earnings..

I got your point my friend because like you I don't like also those nonsense topics just for the sake of posting it...what I did my friend was I turned off the notification of all my friends who are not really submitting interesting topics just like we had a weeks ago posting some (for) adults topics. Don't get me wrong also, anyway, you can view all those posted topics in your profile as long you have common interests... I hope I made myself understood...thanks my friend...

I understand your experience. Online we easy to make friends but becuse of the time limitation we can't keep touch with every one. Usually i accept any request to be my friend. Luckily i have not got so many requests and I still can hold on it. I accepted friends first and have a look at their profile. if i have time i also try to answer my friends discussions and have a look of their photos if they have. by visiting my friends on mylot website i feel a little more confident with my social skills and my life. at least i have friends here, even in my real life i don't have many friends especially in the UK. happy mylotting.

I always check profiles before accepting. If a 16 year old kid whose only activity is in 'make extra money,' I know as soon as I accept I'll get spammed. I have nothing against making friends with younger (or older) members, but they need to have something in common with me. I mean, in the 'real world' you wouldn't become friends with someone unless you had mutual interests, so why should Mylot be any different? I've been here almost 4 months now, and I think it's only in the last 3 or 4 weeks that I've really worked out how to make the best of my friends and, hopefully, give something back to them. And it's certainly not about money - it's about shared interests and fellowship.

I have not been here at mylot for very long. I have approved a few friends being new I did not know who to approved so I did check out profile and choose ones that I thought had my same interest. I will have to check out my friend list and then decide which ones to keep and which one to delete.

I do sometimes check profiles because I want to see on where they are coming from. I do not also look at my homepage but rather stay longer with discussions tab. I enjoy staying here at mylot and enjoy adding more friends that are willing to add me up. :D