what do you think why you don't stay long in a realtionship?

I generally go into a relationship thinking of it long term. Otherwise there doesnt seem much point to it to me. But reasons why i would end the relationship very early on would be because i dont think it is working out. Maybe i dont feel very strongly for that person anymore so dont see any point continuing the relationship. Or maybe i have feelings for someone else. Or that person might have done something to upset me. My last relationship, he was violent to me. So a BIG reason why i would end any future relationships would be because they did something i didnt like that scared me. If someone did something a tiny bit violent i would end the relationship straight away, not risking ending up in that situation again. I would make sure anyone i was going into a relationship with was aware of this fact so they knew they get no second chances when it comes to this matter